Another love advice thread.

Ugh my life is over.. hahah

 

Honestly, I would just dump him. It's pretty stupid if he'd get mad at you - you have the right to be suspicious and if you acted out of suspicion woop de fuckin' do. His fault for leading your trust astray from the beginning.

It seems like you're tired of being strung along like you have been from the start - and you're not really all that him to him when you don't hold his attention.

 

noooo it's nooot. go with your gut, don't allow something to happen that will break your heart. be smart

good luck
everything will be alright

 

this

 

You should dump him. See how he feels to have his heartbroken and see if he's willing to do whatever it takes to get you back.

That's a pretty good test of the moment to actually find out if he's worthwhile my dear.

 

yeah if he loves you like he says then he'll try to get you back. if not then he'll just get back with his ex

 

Especially this - because he lied to your face.

That is *really* dangerous. How are you going to know when he's telling the truth to your face?

See, if I get caught in a lie - no way I can keep a straight face about it.

Your man is literally defying nature and going out of his way to make sure you never know about this other girl and the truth. He's hiding something big. He's probably fucked her recently.

 

sara, what have your friends said about this? i'd think they have a better grasp on the situation than us since they actually know the two of you

 

Eh they basically have been saying the same things yins have been tellin me.

 

well you're the only person that can make the call. i think you know what you need to do

 

DUMP THE DOUCHE ! DUMP THE DOUCHE !

*pickets*

 

how long have you been with this dude?? if it's been a long while, i can understand giving him another chance. but if it's only been a few months...it's not worth it. he's the same one that didn't wanna make it official right? it seems to me like he just doesn't wanna be with you or maybe he doesn't wanna be in a committed relationship. unless you're out cheating on him, i think you deserve better.
if things are this bad now, it'll probably just get worse.
if you have built an otherwise great relationship for a long time, you could try to salvage it.

you can find someone that will be thrilled to be with you

 

IMO, you've been doing yourself a lot of disservice by being with this dude - and have been for a long time.

Just admit it.

 

I met him 3 years ago.. and we've been talking ever since. He just made it official recently though. We have built a great relationship over the past couple years and I would like to try to salvage it, thats why I'm gonna give him another chance.

 

good luck

i hope he smartens up

 

My ex had this annoying girl who would always IM him and whatnot.It really annoyed me because he was too nice and didn't wanna tell her to stop. Then he finally told her to stop bothering him, yet she'd still do it.Then I found out that he undeleted her and caught him texting her one day.I got so annoyed with it.I don't understand why some people do that.So I never really knew if he really felt bad or if he was trying anything.....Whatever though, I don't even talk to him anymore.
So all I have to say is, fuck that shiiit.No one should have to deal with that.

 

maybe im weird, but i have no hangups about my hubby's exes. maybe a face to face awkwardness, but i trust him. he has some hangups about my past, so we just dont talk about it and i dont really have any need to talk to my exes anyway, so its moot. heh, moot. i hope i used that right. moot. but i digress.
my honey comes home and tells me about the gorgeous chick at work, because i can appreciate that. im not going to hold it against him. and now im too high to remember where i was going with that. i love my man

 

After trying to make it work for 3 years and he's still lying to you to your face - I wouldn't exactly call that a "great relationship" but I won't judge.

DUMP THE DOUCHE! DUMP THE DOUCHE!

*pickets*

He sounds mean, sarcastic and unappreciative of you.

 

It's these three things that make me wonder why my girlfriend is still with me to this day....... :smilielol5:

 

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