Any girls with live Boyfriends!?? Advice please..

Thank you very much auri_rain!!
I really appreciate the advice.
Good luck to you to

 

Relationships are a lot less likely to succeed if the couple lives together before they get married...

 

that's only of both ppl dont work at making their relationship last
alot of sacriifices have to be made

 

I'd personally would move out if i was arguing with him over stupid things. Dont make any long term commitments. and you guys moved too fast

 

any girls with live boyfriends? well, i think most boyfriends are living...

 

haha yea I meant to say any girls with with boyfriends..hehe
sorry

 

yea i agree..

 

that was just funny to me and i couldn't resist

 

haha I bet it was!

 

Dead boys can't say no... they also can't talk back hehe

 

hehe true!

 

Sweetleaf,

One thing that you have in this world is "choice." What you do with that choice is up to you. Yes, it is that simple. If you are continuing to fight with your boyfriend you are making the choice to do so. If you stop and think about why something is pissing you off BEFORE exploding, you are making that choice too. People fight over stupid shit! They do! Now, how (or if) you stop fighting over the little things is entirely up to you.

If he does something that annoys you stop and ask yourself "Why does this annoy me?" and if your answer isn't totally selfish (and be honest with yourself), stop again and ask yourself "How can I bring this to his attention in a non-confrontational way?" By now you should be calmed down and ready to express your emotions in a much more calm and positive way.

The hardest part in a relationship is the communication. It will take work, on both your parts, but it can be done. Good luck!

 

I've actually read a lot of helpful tools like this and I never seem to
be able to work on them in a situation like this because Im
so fucking stubborn sometimes and I've not only ruined my
relationship with my bf..but I've ruined my life:/
I definitely see what your are trying to explain to me His Eden
Thank you very much for the advice..