Anyone ever told you you have a big U know, or you know what's?

BULLSHIT.

I've thought about what it would be like to kill a man; fuck, I've even fantasized about killing my ex-boss - have I murdered?

I've fantasized about cheating on my girl of (almost) three years on and off ever since we've been banging. Like OP, she is the only girl I've 'been with'. This is probably one of the only things I wouldn't tell her - and I really wish that I someday can, but her insecurity will not allow at this point.
I would never ever act on these fantasies, and have turned down the opportunity to multiple times even though each time it was with a gal that I had fantasized about already - one, being quite frank - the sexiest girl I've ever known.

 

Your talking about having fantasies which is perfectly normal, this is totally different. He was purposely bringing on attention to himself and then complains about the temptation. Not the same thing at all man.

 

Was he purposefully?
He just admitted he was an attention whore at times - you never even asked him if he was doing it consciously.
I mean, if he had said that he opened the door in his underwear, then I would think you have a case, or even if he did do that, and didn't say it - but we simply don't know yet.

But I still have to say it's not the same. Being with someone isn't about ego gratification when you love them - sure that comes with it - but by what you said - it's as if trying to look good would be cheating, if your partner isn't around.

 

He did say this except he didn't say he had underwear on, my take on this was he was purposely looking to get attention, and if your gonna do this then don't complain about temptation plain and simple.

 

Hm, when I first read it, I didn't read any implication about him being sans pants. Now, when I read it, it doesn't make sense if he was wearing pants.

But also if that is the case, I don't see how he can assume the "oh my" was because of his size, and not because of his 'ludeness'

 

I don't like to blow my own horn but out of the 5 girls I've been with total 4 have complimented my size and have stated its the biggest they've had.

 

And I bet at least 3 out of 4 of them said that to all the guys they had.

 

Its funny I was just gonna mention that, as far as I know only one of my buddy's had her too and I asked him if she said anything to her during sex and it was exactly the same lol!