anyone found their 'soulmate'?

Amazingly, I have been right-on thus far!

 

woah

 

I found my soulmate, and surprisingly enough, she lives about 10 minutes away from me. We've been progressively getting closer (in proximity) to each other our whole lives, and at the right moment, made contact. Now we get closer every day in a much higher sense

 

so those of you that have shared.. HOW do you know? with this guy I met.. I can't put my finger on it. I can't put it into words. can anyone tell me just how they know?

 

Ack. Seven years of hindsight?

 

Michael is either a pure, spiritual being who lives on a higher plane than you and I (maybe rightfully so!), or a closet serial killer...I'm not sure which...

Ok... Enough teasing TarHead...

That's rude and POOR MANNERS!

Sorry Michael, that is really insanely rude of me...

But, in my modest little agnostic/heathen opinion, there are far more variations of human craziness, both male and female, than just 18, or whatever...

*smacks a RUDE TarHead*

Back to the topic...

I don't think "soulmate" is necessarily exclusive, so it depends on your definition. People die every day, and then people have to move on. Back in my "co-dependent" days, the end of my relationship with Lovely Rita would have permanently capsized me...I would have never recovered. NOW... I know that I would be capsized, and would absorb a tremendous blow, and be consumed with grief, but I would move on, and find ways to love life, and other people again... She would want that... It's part of living... And there are tons of people who have LOTS of MERIT... I see that in my interactions with other women, and other people in general... I would want my wife to move on, and find someone, should we ever be split apart, and not dwell on the fact that we are not together... Maybe for a little while, but ultimately, life moves on...And I would want her to... And I would want to myself...

Life is beautiful in many different places...

But to answer your question... I have met someone that COMPLETES me...

Does that match a definition of Soul Mate? I would think so... But our relationship is a reflection of ME, as well as HER, and we are equally important components in our marriage. We are reflections of one another, and of the 10 plus years we have spent together and the history gained in that time frame...

We are as close as any married couple I have seen, with unrivaled communication abilities...We love each other fiercely, and with devotion, but we are not slavish in our dedication to one another... We are the King and Queen of CatCalls, and have a great appreciation for the freedom that can come from confident understanding... Rita and I have the best time, and although we're some of the "worst" flirts I have ever seen, we have peace of mind that no one can separate us.

Talking TOO MUCH has strengthened us, and hurt us as well...

But we tackle our things together...There's my theorem on "soulmates..." I'll go find some other forum, but thanks for the topic...

 

Who ever it was that wrote this, in responce to my post, and that was to scared to give their name, "Permissiveness and looseness does not promote healthiness in our children!", and gave me bad rep, Remember I have the right to free speech, and yes, what i do is my buisness, but i have the right to share if i choose. But it is your responsiblity, not mine, to watch over your children. If you let your kids run wild, they'll be exposed anything. If your looking for a censored environment for your kids, the internet was a stupid choice.
And how DARE you try to discipline me because you don't like what i said. It hurt no one. I particularly don't care if you think i'm Risque, if i'm not hurting anyone i can be whatever the hell i feel like. The whole world is not gonna tone itself down for you because you decided to spread your legs and have kids. Your children are not my responsibility and I will not remain in the 1950's because you want to slack off in the parenting department. jackass

 

Hmmmmm. Three guesses, huh? I thinl the 'comments' option in the rep system is just an excuse for sad losers to insult people when they haven't got the courage to say something in public. Pathetic.

 

i agree... (what 3 guesses?)

 

Well ok, it only takes one guess I suppose. Go through the thread and count off the likely candidates.

 

i found my soul mate. we met four years ago he was 17 i was 15 he just moved from ohio. He was in a few of my classes and we started to talk and we exchanged numbers. We hung out at his house or my house. We go to know eachother so well to the point where we dont even need to talk to communicate. He and i dated for a couple of months then i fucked up and cheated on him with an asshole and ended up moving in with the asshole then after a week of dealing with his shit and being beat my dad called me and said he's going to florida and i went with. I called my soulmate when i got to florida and I apoligized and he accepted the apology and we talk every night and i tell all about my fiance and he says if anything happens where Aiden ( my baby) and i need a place that he will always be there. And if i decide to leave my fiance that he would pay for my ticket up here and make space for me and when the baby comes and raise the child as his own. I started to cry when he said that. He is such a sweet heart.

 

for a year and a half, we spoke to each other politely and briefly maybe six times. Both totally, and trying to hide it, totally entranced each time. Her eyes just got me. I tried to get together with her earlier, then drove off in fear. Mortal fear, that at the time I could not even justify. It was fear she would not come back out of her apartment, and would ditch me. I was so afraid of that, I drove away....
Our first real conversation, Dec. 13 last year, by the end of it, we were good friends, by the 17th, like a long married couple, knew each other completely, by the 21st she was living here, by the 31st we were engaged.
We spoke in stereo all the time, knew the others feelings and could not help but feel them. Mirrors, totally in love, said i love you to each other, and still do, 20 times a day. it is different now though, but is steadily getting more and more the same as it was.

With us, it was not so much how do you know. but how could anyone possibly not know.

 

I'm thinking I have. I've been going out with Awbrey for a year and 5 months, and so far, we're both into animals rights, members of PETA, Irish, forums-users, gaia users, love rain, into bondage/other sex stuff, want to see places, I don;t know, the list is long! But I truely feel connected to her...

 

I believe i have found my soulmate. God i'm so happy with him! speaking of that, i have to go call him. hah. Yeah. We got introduced on Halloween last year. We "Met" and actually Talked in December of last year. We've been together since January, and damn have we been through A LOT together, but it only seems to make our relationship stronger. I love him so much!

 

Thought (or hoped) I had twice, now I guess I've given up looking.