Are bisexuals always physically attracted to both sexes?

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by bpops215, Feb 18, 2012.

  1. LivinAFantasy

    LivinAFantasy Member

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    I am bisexual, but I find very few men attractive. Physically, women are much better to look at and touch, being nice and soft and having curves. I am attracted to transsexuals though if they are feminine enough. It's all your own personal preference, and if I was you I wouldn't be too concerned about what other people are attracted to. You'll never have a happy life if what others think impacts you so much that you question yourself based on their info. Life is too short for that, and if you are only 16, I would say that I know it may seem like a big deal to you right now, however, over the years my tastes and views have changed, and yours may ,also. As long as what you are doing doesn't hurt someone or is illegal, don't be so concerned with others. They're living their life, you have to live yours. Enjoy it while you can.
     
  2. Cath

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    I've always acknowledged attractive women but it wasn't until I was 39/40 (2-3 years ago!) that I was physically attracted to them.
     
  3. bisexi69

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    I was always attracted to both sexes myself, I'm a male by the way. When I was a kid I was always curious about boys and girls and experimented with both. I didn't get too much action early in my teenage years but I engaged a lot with both genders online in chatrooms and vidchating and that sorta stuff. During my late teens 17-19 I started getting some action from girls and went through a pretty straight phase, I didn't really think about guys at this time cause getting girls was easier and more realistic in my situation. I'm 20 now and have been on about a year long dry spell and I'm fantasizing a lot about guys and girls. Meeting girls is kind of hard these days so I'm considering finding a guy to hook up with online and start experimenting with guys again. So it's varied a lot throughout my life but now I'm leaning towards guys a little more.
     
  4. benzocoop

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    I can't confidently say I'm bi, but definitely not 100% straight. I've always been sexually and romantically attracted to women, but didn't think of men in any kind of way in terms of attraction until middle school. That feeling got stronger in high school, and now I know I'm past the curious phase. I do find some guys physically attractive, much less than women though, and my preferences are waaaay more picky. I pretty much am only attracted to women on a romantic basis though, so I won't be dating or marrying a man.
     
  5. texas.grok

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    Good way of putting it Ramsdixon. I would put myself at a 2 on a scale like that. Bicurious, the idea of having sex with a man sounds like fun just as long there is no kissing between me and the man. I know, I know, weird. I would consider sucking him but not kissing him, go figure.

    Never tried it but some day....
     
  6. Goodbi

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    As a 16 year old and influenced by my peers, I was physically more attracted to females but I had an appreciation and fantasies about guys. As I have aged and become more comfortable with my sexuality and less interested in my peers opinions, I can appreciate and I am turned on by males and females almost equally. It is so hard for me to pick which is stronger now from a physical point of view I don't bother, I just enjoy the fact that I have more to look at.

    My point is, you will find as life goes on your own situation will develop and don't be surprised if you are turned on by a hot male body just as much as a hot female body later in life. I am and it is a good thing if you ask me.
     
  7. yazhugs

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    I'm bisexual and a good looking man can take my breath away but that doesn't mean I get an instant boner.

    I fantasise about men just as much, if not more than women when masturbating and I get turned on by gay porn but again that doesn't mean a picture of a naked man is going to get me hard with no physical stimulation.

    I don't think it's a pre-requisite for being gay or bi. If you find men attractive and want to have sex or an emotional relationship with them then for me you are either gay or bi, there is no need for further soul searching. Just be happy that you know your desires and embrace them and yourself.
     

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