So my boss called us in to talk about it (nurse lady wouldn't stop bitching) and told the nurse she needed to chill because she has never seen me be agressive or mean to anyone.
I used to be really passive with my co-workers and take a lot of shit. In my last job I had a very emotionally abusive boss who would call the people I supervised bitches and motherfuckers. When I brought this up to his boss (the CEO) he said it was okay because they actually were motherfuckers. Anywho...that experience taight me a lot. I have learned how to not be passive agressive and be assertive in a healthy way at work. It has brought a lot more peace to my life. But yeah...I still wanna blow-up at her and tell her how stupid she is.