Yeah, I don't mind the actual dark skin, I'm just at that point where I'm too dark to see, too fair in places to be consistant. It probably doesn't help with the bags under my eyes. Yeah, I've heard a lot of stereotypes about asian families. Pushy, career driven, hard working, but of them all, bitchy is probably the one I can identify most easily. It's worse with my dad's family, I don't know if that's because my mum married in or whatever but my mums family like my dad, just wish I could say the same the other way round. And of course, we're all tainted by association. You never did tell me who was the irish guy who knew hindi..?