Yea I need to just do it, but heres another issue I ahve that im really worried about. Once I get a girl, I worry as to how it would go from there, because I generally am not into drinking and I dont do a whole lot of social stuff on my own, and I wonder if that would bug her, or if she would like that. I generally keep to myself other than doing stuff occassionally with my friends, but I dont do alot compared to some people, so that is what worries me that if I get a gf she might not like that. Then again, I could do whatever she wants to do, which she might like I guess.
You seem to doubt yourself so much, but just try and relax and not think into things too much. I know you will find my advice irritating, but you seem so worried and anxious about so many aspects of talking to a girl, to getting a girl. Do your own thing, and when you do see a girl you like, don't have the time to talk to for long, take a breath and just approach her. Have a bit of faith in yourself. The actor Samuel L. Jackson has this quote which I like. He says the coolest person is the person who can be anywhere and still be himself. When you are in the situation, remind yourself of your attributes and take a moment. Don't take it so seriously.
ok everyone is different and has their own way of doing things this is no different. confuses say man with confadaince get pussy first, man who not assertive stay virgin forever. lol just be your self be a bit funny but not overly.