Asshole Fwbs

I know from reading your posts that you are anti relationship, but I think a good healthy real relationship with a good decent person would do you a hell of a lot of good. None of these things you have going on right now sound like FWB situations anyways. You also need to have more self respect in yourself and when some asshole starts calling you names get the fuck out. It is your life and its time to take control of it and stop relying on other people to take care of your shit. You will feel better about yourself if you do.

 

Very good post!

 

this is a recent development? i had assumed it's been going on for a while.

i don't know, it blows my mind even more that a man would pay a woman's phone who he is only having sex with.

 

Someone is paying for his sex but he doesn't have to pick anyone up off the street. I'd feel like a hooker if a guy paid for my sex. Just me tho. I have to have a relationship and then sex is a part of that.

 

Doesnt that last sentence just mean they have to cough up a lot more before they get sex, sorry 'relationship'?

A good healthy real relationship? Like every other lame stable couple she sees around her, that bore themselves stupid, and then go all crusty and weird

Just sounds like the more this twin guy is mean to her, the more she gets off on it, probably cos she cant stand clingy and dependant, kills her lady boner

And what is self respect? So they have some silly fights about phone pics, big deal. He's supposed to treat her like she's 12 and not be a big meanie and just say fake nice stuff and somehow that translates to her having self respect?

She supposedly has less self respect than all these other mind numbingly boring chics who fill suburbia, that have been with the same guy forever, re-modelled the kitchen 20 times, so horny and frustrated they cant even talk to a guy - is that the good healthy relationship with a decent person you are talking about?

 

I've noticed something about you the last little while, months or so. Its starting to click isnt it, how many of them arent like you. How many of them are worse with the horny than most guys, just tried to hide it from everyone for too long.

This is what I mean by some of us new what you were all along, that loin fire was never more than a candle flickering, so you were able to concentrate and put yourself through medical school....not run out and have babies with the first male that touches you, or not spend every moment obsessing how 'hurt' you are by everything every male ever does

And to amuse myself even more, that typical female comment sounds like something I would say

 

Thank you. Monogamy sucks.

Everytime I get a boyfriend, someone say "he's cheating on you." They don't even have to know the guy.

Then they say "just focus on how he treats you." That fucking ridiculous. I'm supposed to just look the other way? What about HIV?

What's the difference in how he treats you? By and large, the people I sleep with treat me very well. I'm invited to a swinger party this weekend and I know I'll be safe and have a blast like I always do. I'm the only one who's allowed to spend the night. No one will have to cough up anything but their bodies. I love variety. Each persona, each body type, each voice, each dick is different.

Speaking of HIV, I think it's more likely in a relationship because you don't use condoms. Most people have kids because it was an accident, fact. I always use protection. I know someone who has fucked 768 girls and has never had an STD or gotten anyone pregnant.

Admittedly, having casual sex bolsters my image as a lone wolf and a non-conformist surrounded by followers. I feel isolated, and I love that feeling. I don't mind being average in terms of career, I don't have to be some superstar. But I do like feeling unique.

 

No that is not the kind of good healthy relationship I was talking about! If you have never had one I can see how you would look at things the way you do. Last time I checked there was a whole lot of different ways that people go about having relationships with others. Whatever works for you.

 

Not in my case, I have been able to buy what I want since 17. Have always split on the bills and when I went on my own, fended for myself, never has a guy had to buy me or do anything more then pay his own way.
Now emotionally yes there is a need for love and all that, maybe Bday pressies but that's part of a relationship and I don't cheap out on my guy either.
I feel bad for women who have to lean on their guys pay Cheque and I kinda don't like the kind who do it as a preference. Only because I know how much better it is if we can also fend for ourselves. I was brought up to know we have to make our own way and no guy has fended for me or my share of the bills. I started buying houses on my own ability and still can.

 

I'm financially indepedent and employed also. It's just a nice gesture on their part. I don't need it. And I do things for them to, because we're friends.

 

But Friends don't really do that if one isn't needing it. Yes I have helped a friend but pay their phone bill? Shut it off if you can't afford it, come over and use mine,,, or chances are I would pay a months worth if they needed it to find a job but to take on the monthly? No one does that unless there is a reason, more then being nice as a friend. It's more like paid benefits.
A nice gesture is a smile, a handshake, a helping hand where needed, an assistance out of a car for the lady, good advice offered,,, not usually an instalment of payments for someone else's toys or bills.

 

Didn't you just start a thread about how you didn't want to work and say that you were on assitance and that was all you needed?

 

Zing!!! I was thinking the same thing.

 

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=487302

 

You're like totally super smart and insightful when it comes to females.

 

Lol, you feel unclean now dont you, cos that typical, typical female thing did sound like me

 

No, not really. And you got some of it wrong.
But hey at least you didn't accuse me of daddy issues, like you tend to do.

 

I got a job.

 

I assume that guy (or was it a gal) is using protection the way it's supposed to be used then if he's been with that many women.

Good for him, but unfortunately the majority of people I know have caught something here or there, but then again I guess sloppy use of protection will do that for ya.

 

You didnt really word that properly, so the majority of people you know have an STI?

But you are full of it anyway, seriously who's going to run around telling people what STIs they have. The majority of people you know, you would have no idea what they have. Which brings us to the REAL reason you would say something like that