dude i know how you feel..i was single for like 2 years maybe more until i met my current girlfriend. i was nervous as hell around her at first, i guess you could say shes a bit out of my league even. i think i'd also just been hanging out with my guy friends mostly smoking alot of weed and not interacting with enough females. blazing with girls is fun but i find it harder to make conversation and stuff when i've been smoking unless i'm familiar with the person. nervousness just makes you overanalyze shit most the time
I hear that, rejection is a biatch. It's hard when you come out of a relationship with such an amazing person and it's like no one else compares. Even when you do find some1 you'd like to be with, it all ends pitifully and you have to start over again. If you get rejected, don't take it too personally, forget about it, move on, build up your confidence once more and try again. I think guys try to move too fast with women these days, from pressure from friends or the media. There's sex everywhere you look and you can start feeling quite inadequete or inferior if you haven't had it for a while. It's all imaginary though. Confidence is built through experiance. Having said all this bullshit, if i get rejected again by this new girl i like i'm gonna be pissed and back 2 square 1. At least there's weed.
thats about when it gets to me but with spring/summer around the corner... im glad im single.. cuz then i can go out fishing all the time and not worry about having to entertain my other half
that's what i thought when i started highschool.... and alas there's only been TWO guys. neither of which go to my school, and neither of which i see on the daily, or even close to the daily.
you can't be trying hard enough....guys and pussy are like dogs and food unless theyre maladaptive like yours truly
lol, more bitching. I wanna join. Well let's see. Got out of the best thing that ever happened to me about 6 months ago, that went on for nearly 2 years. It was so goddamn awesome. And I took it for granted. You don't realize what you have until it's gone is a very true statement. I suffered for awhile with some seriously bad heartbreak. Got ever it. Tried to date a few more people after I was sure I was over with it and had sorted out my feelings (because rebounds suckkkk). Dated one guy for like 2 weeks before things went to shit over the dumbest little argument. Had like 3-4 more serious attempts after that. All of which failed because he either didn't like me that way or I didn't like him that way. And here I am. I've only had sex once in the past 5 months, but worse is that I'm lonely as fuck. I'm really bad when I'm alone. But when I'm hanging out with people you wouldn't know I was depressed. It's crazy. Ehh. Next person who just responds with 'gay' is getting punched in the face.
i wanted to ask if you were bi or just gay, i hope i can use my lvl 33 falcon resistance to dodge any uncalled for punch...? I put more time thinking into this... Every relationship i have been in in the past year, i either ended or cut off when i decided i didnt like the person, and most/all of the time, they liked me ... (some people like me, even if i hate them) - and i coulda gotten laid, fuck ... i was attracted sexually to them, but figured that would be cruel and kinda shrugged it off and just bailed. i talked about this with friends, theyre like... ''dude, your at an age where shit like this is norm.'' so im like ok... Shit i feel like calling my last gf now... perfect body, but little to none personality... but i am hella horny and lonely, and its spring... i kinda bailed on her with no explanation... i could say i lost my phone or something and then try to hit it off on that very night ... fail scenario, well...
I've had a couple bi encounters.. and each time ended in me feeling disgusted... like.. i didn't feel right with myself for what i did... what i think it was was my quest for sexual pleasure.. and once that was fulfilled i found what i did to be disgusting
I see no reason for bisexuality to be discouraged. I'd probably have a difficult time fucking another dude myself, but I'm also pretty sure that has more to do with social and cultural conditioning than anything else. Why can't we be like bonobos, and use homo- and heterosexual intercourse as a means of facilitating social bonds, not some sort of commodity to be doled out with extreme prejudice.