Attracting the beautiful girls

If any one is interested.
This link wall dive technical terms of what Asperger's syndrome is base on the diagnostic guide.
http://ani.autistics.org/dsm4-aspergers.html

This website also gives some good information about Asperger's. It gives a sample of a diagnostic test that is given.
http://www.aspergers.com/

 

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i'm not...it just makes me understand alittle more
so id definately take back the your attitude sux comments, and realize thats partialy beyond your control..
i think u should just tryto realize that you cant just trust your judgment of ppl..and you should just assume everyone will like you..and they will

 

I couldnt agree more with this -However apart from the fact I dont think youre confident as a person - I think you secretly dont have the confidence to approach a young woman in the right way - just be friendly - but earlier you gave the opinion (or I felt the opinion) that you had high ideals of who is worthy of you. People are so much uglier when they are too fussy about the type of person they think is "good looking" or "great to be with" - chris says he doesnt want some "fat minger" but by having such high expectations it makes you look unattractive to the opposite sex.
Women want someone who is not just going to accept them, but also the people they have known a lot longer than you - they dont want some fashion victim giving a load of opinionated views on whether their friends are fat mingers or dressed shabbily - they want to know you can fit in with their background - and theyre bound to have a few fat friends or people who dont dress like you - but they dont care because they love those people and wouldnt want a style-guru upsetting what theyve already worked hard to achieve

Yeah I'd say its your attitude that needs to change -
whether thats just that you need more experience around women and how to act confidently enough to be impressive to them, or whether your attitude needs to be less stringent about appearences - maybe its both

In my experience women like a guy thats confident without being OTT and
isnt too critical of other people and things they cant help about themselves - you say dont use aspergers against me - but you were calling people "fat mingers" hardly a nice thing to do is it? Nobody wants to be fat

 

be rich and beautiful yourself, i suppose...water seeks it's own level.

 

real talk, don't be a punk. the finest girls in clubs/bars are usually the easiest ones to pick up because dudes thinks she's out of thier league. from my experiences, the finest ones never get approached because dudes are intimidated thats why they tend to dig the 1st person(who's reasonably presentable and has a decent mouthpiece) who approaches them. step your game up, dress saucey, get a good wingman(i have alot of different ones) and you're good.

 

I am not or would ever hold anything against you. I was just giving some information for people who did not have an understanding of Asperger's. I know alot about the disorder and would never think of holding it against anyone. I am sorry that it offended you.

 

Reread all that - think your signature is very sexy - wow

P.S. I'll be very Bad.

 

Dear Chris

I think you are OK, and maybe the problem is because you are too sensitive, and if you allow me, a teen-ager; and a very intelligent one too.

as a teen-ager, every one had some problems with himself, and with the other
people as well, this will go away by time, and most of people had those feelings, but you had the courage to mention them.

solutions:

1. You are very normal, maybe better than normal too.

2. Dressing well with good taste is sure something to every girl, and to all actually, but if you can not for the time being, then clean dressing and a little similar to people in your age, and school is also good enough.

3. Do not stay alone for long, specially at home, or without doing some good activity, this let your mind plays tricks on you.

4. So you should join any activity in your school or some place near you, think sporty things are the easiest to join, or join any other that suits you, or at least in the beginning join any good group that accepts you.

5. That will solve point No. 3 if you have it, and will be a chance to meet people from different sexes, then be friendly with the reasonable from both sexes regardless of how pretty they are, along the way with time, nice looking girls would come in, treating them the same, will increase your chances a lot, females are more social than males, so expect every girl to know at least 4 or 5 other girls at least, with time you will get to know them all, maybe then you complain of having no time for all those girls ! you have to be with people when ever you can.

6. I do not think you have any illness or problems, you are just moving from
childhood period to manhood period, and this can cause some questions inside, doubting ourselves some time, seeing things differently, it is know to be a period of instability for all people on Earth.

7. Just do not over do that look and way you described with that clip, and do not think too much about what people think about you, frankly most people think teen-agers are little crazy but they do symbatize with them, those looks are not against you, it could be that they remembered how thy were when they were young, or because you are young & handsome, or because that man thought it is a nice view seeing a mother & son walking together, or or ...
it is not you at all whom they are really looking too.

8. Now we come to point of Young girls laughing thing, those girls are just relaxed with each other, they laugh out of fun, actually if they do not find something to start those laughters be it a young man, man, woman ..etc they will look at the mirror and laugh about themselves, it is not personal, and it is not hostile at all. they just love to have FUN (remember that).

Hey man, take it easy, you are young and that is reason enough to feel as king of the world, do not let any thing steel that from you (even you), and do not be too proud about it either

what is your sun sign - maybe a Cancer ??

Good luck Chris - You are OK - You are just passing through the Teen-ager period, try to not to be alone, socialize a little more, some little sport, and you will laugh later from all what you felt now, and that will be very soon.

Good Luck again. (although you do not need it).

P.S. What would you like as a companion ? a fresh friendly reasonable person, or the contrary person even if he is the most intelligent man on earth ????

 

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i've never taken a wink badly. it always makes me smile, no matter who it is. unless he's drooling and twitching.

 

*giggle*

 

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Cocky and funny work.....dance on the cusp of being a jerk by casually giving her shit, but then relieve the tension with humor. They love being busted down a notch.
Girls value honesty not games and dumb ass pick up lines.

 

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you just gotta lighten up a little

 

Learn to truly smile, my friend. Not a fake, freaky, wide-eyed grin or anything. Just a little look that says "Ease up, pretty lady; I'm a friend in waiting." Smiles are contagious, a great ice breaker, and I find they almost always lead to at least a cheery little "hello!"

 

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