Attracting the beautiful girls

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by c3089, Mar 19, 2007.

  1. ronald Macdonald

    ronald Macdonald Banned

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    actually shouldnt this be in love or sex forum or lonely doods forum
     
  2. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Chris only feels comfortable posting in this forum because he wants to be taken seriously, and he has problems beyond love.
     
  3. ronald Macdonald

    ronald Macdonald Banned

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    Well we all like being taken seriously bu since you obviously have some vested interest in this particular forum and in covering up the fact that it is censored acording to a feminist critique of what mens issues should be, it rather makes a travesty of the claim that its a mens issues forum. Perhaps if he posted in the proper forum for this thread he would get taken a lot more seriously

    Its simply his issue not a mens issue
     
  4. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    relationships would probably be the most appropraite... actually for most of his stuff as he primariliy seems to have issues with relationship with others, relating to others or having other relate to him, etc but im no mod to decide where thing sgo and dont go
     
  5. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Chris,

    I realize we didn't exactly get along last time I posted in one of your threads, but I really do hope you find someone. I also hope someday you'll have the confidence to go talk to that someone. Peace.

     
  6. aspirine

    aspirine Member

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    Fuck first friends later.


     
  7. IlUvMuSIc

    IlUvMuSIc Senior Member

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    Whats the obsession with beautiful girls? Why are you so desperate for a girl like that? Yes okay the guys been banned but still. Whats wrong with having an average girl?

    You know what - You want a gorgeous girl but what makes you think that she'll want you if what you see in her are her looks. If she knew that had she been ugly you would not have given her a second glance... Thats harsh dude. Harsh.

    I mean you've probably blown your chance with the average girl because she wasnt ever good enough for you and the beautiful girl? Well she'll probably be looking for someone as gorgeous as her or someone who sees HER not her looks.

    Anyone watched Alex and Emma? Youd have to watch the whole thing to get it but the message is there.

    Theres nothing wrong with being ugly. I'm ugly and it rocks. Well okay im not that ugly im just below average. It still rocks.

    Plus most pretty girls i know are either bitches or have not always been popular... That or they made it to the top with random guys drooling over them and they dont want to come back down.

    ooo another thing. Just cos she looks average now doesnt mean she will forever. Like in what not to wear - they take uglyish or unconfident people and make them all purty. Okay chances are she wont be on that show but if she does decide to change then i think you'll be in with a better chance for seeing her when she wasnt that hot.
     
  8. Illidan

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    Wait a second. First of all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have a very weird concept of "beautiful"...so, who knows...
    Secondly, the personality is the most important thing, i know, but the LOOKS GO FIRST. I mean, when you meet a girl, the first thing you notice it's her image, how she looks, how she talks, etc etc, not her personality, it's her image. After passing the "image test" so to speak, you'll want to know her better. That's the truth. There's no such thing as "ONLY the personality matters".
    He diserves to have a beautiful girlfriend, why not? I think it's unfair to label beautiful women as shallow or "bitches", they sure are sometimes, but not always.

    Last thing...I'm sorry but...if you don't even have confidence in yourself, you'll never get the hotty or whatever you like to call it. They're just not looking for the average guy, or the shy one. It's a cruel reality, but you can be equally happy with an average girl.
    Am I making any sense in all this reply? lol. Good luck.
     
  9. Illidan

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    Last last thing, being UGLY SUCKS ALL THE WAY. The best thing is to be average.
     
  10. TheMadcapSyd

    TheMadcapSyd Titanic's captain, yo!

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    Remember Beauty is not a super model, fall in love with a person and you'll think they're beyond beautiful.
     
  11. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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  12. wistman

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    it certainly does read like catcher in the rye the person who said that
     
  13. IlUvMuSIc

    IlUvMuSIc Senior Member

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    I dont hav any problems with myself... Tell the truth - i am tired of being judged and rejected because im not pretty enough... I have friends, i make people laugh, i have NOTHING wrong with me.

    As far as im concerned its the rest of the world with the problem and im SICK of it...

    Of course they're not always, i have many pretty friends, if they truely were shallow they wouldnt be friends with me. Im sorry if it sounded like that or it came off like it because thats not what i meant... So sorry.

    But many girls are like that... Its true beauty when youre pretty and dont look down on others for not being it...
     
  14. IlUvMuSIc

    IlUvMuSIc Senior Member

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    Its given me a realistic view of life... i know what people are like.
     
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