Bad Surprise

im not creating drama stacy, i just dont get why you have such a hard time with the easiest of decisions....

i dont need to know intentions or memories, if you're not together the ring means nothing.

 

well thats your opinion then

 

indeed it is, and it's probably why i dont get hung up on the past and look forward to a future where I better myself and my life....

its also probably why i dont blame other people for what's wrong with my life.

im a big girl like that

 

you keep being a big girl now

 

I still have the first ring that was given to me. If it means something to you, keep it....even if it's just a little something. I wear mine sometimes because it's pretty....but I wear it on my middle finger not my 'you know' finger. When I'm done with it, I put it up....I'll give it to my daughter when she's older.

 

This seems like an effort for him to "get the last word" so to speak. One final "F*ck You." Yes, us guys are like that. And no return address is a way of ensuring that he gets the last word. If you think it means a lot to his mother, then maybe mail it to her.

Personally, I'd just toss it, because it would have lost its meaning for me once the relationship ended. Who needs to keep it as a reminder of good times? I'd be more focused on creating new good times with new people. Even if I wanted to remember that relationship, I certainly wouldn't need to have a little trinket. My memory of it would be good enough, you know? Just my 2 cents.