Be honest

Our baby wasnt planned, but I wanted to have this baby since the moment I found out. Im excited to be a mommy. I mean, I already am

 

i was walking fecundity desperate to mate and procreate. i was in heat, for god's sake. but i was at least rational enough to look for a good man first. desperate for babies. then i got scared, waited a while, the was totally desperate for another baby. now i'm fixed.

 

see, Id like the kid without the pain of pushing it out of me. Thats what im most scared of. Id rather push it out than be cut open though.

 

I just voted to awkward the poll up a bit.

 

Wanted.
I don't do anything just because "it's the next thing".

 

im not sure i want any kids at all.

 

I've always wanted children. I thank God that I was blessed with the experience of paternal love

 

ive always wanted kids but it happened earlier than i expected i would like more someday, but who knows.

 

Didn't you tell me you weren't the parent type before your first kid was born?

I mean, if you've always wanted children.

 

Honestly....... I don't think there is anything I want more than to have kids. Even if I don't 'find someone'

 

I'm calling out the "adoption" people...I believe they are talking out of their asses.
Adoption takes lawyers and $$$ and can take years...you will be background checked, home checked and every other kind of checked.

These kids are not just healthy white babies fresh from the womb, and a lot of them are damaged goods. Mental problems, drug addictions, whatnot.

If you think you've got what it takes, good luck to you.

 

Nah brah, I didnt even know you before he was born lol.
But if I said anything similar to that recently, I most definitley was not what people (myself included) would consider as suitable to become a parent, considering my lifestyle and financial position. It's kind of hard to feed and nurture a baby when your fried on magic mushrooms and opiates lol.
But I have always wanted to be a father, even since I was a little kid myself. And now that I am, I cant imagine myself any other way.

 

I meant recently.

Okay.

 

I would do that before I popped another icky screaming sleepless colicy newborn out of my vag.
they both take loads of money.If i don't have the money to adopt down the road I have no business popping another kid out.

I would rather put that money into getting an older child-(and there are many btw, not all are "damaged as you say" you can even get an american child,foster them 1st- there are far toooo many success stories to consider all foster children damaged goods )
one who needs a home,rather than cluttering up the world with my cancer prone offspring

-as cute and awesome as my one kidlet is. Having a newborn,and being preggy was not for me to do twice, and with our genetic problems probably isn't advisable, we are lucky our kid is ok right now
:cheers2:

 

that adoption assumes you'll pass the screenings and background checks, the random check-ins and lifestyle examinations. you have to have the money, the discipline, the home, etc.

 

I have baby fever.

 

Nonsense.
Where do you get that having a baby costs as much as adopting? Getting pregnant and having a baby is free...unless your vagina is a toll vagina...

 

Well you know what you have to do Cate! You know what Im talking aboot

 

bow chicka

 

haha