LOL. maybe mine is then. I sure think babies ,and children are expensive. The hospital stay and medical care in my daughters first few days alone could have supported a starving community in africa. Maybe it is just me personally then,I def would not want to have another child unless I had a decent amount of money to put towards their care on this planet- and if I had such money I would much rather put it towards adopting. Also, I have studied adoption quite a bit in recent years(long story in which I almost ended up guardian of my sister in laws three kids ) and it is often NOT as expensive OR invasive as many assume, especially for an older child , of if you plan to foster/adopt or travel in the process.
it's crazy but I wanted all three of mine. They were all planned and welcome. It was after the fact that I changed my mind. Does that count??
maybe in canada its free. In the US, It aint. Gotta pay for prenatal care, all the stuff you need pre Baby, delivery, hospital stay, all the shit baby needs, medical care for Baby, food, diapers, clothes.. Its so much. It was 1600 USD for my niece to be delivered, and that was with government assistance. i dont plan on having a kid until Im able to provide for it on my own. thats a long ways away.
Medical bills are just suggestions, like pants! I still owe probably upwards of 50k for Jack and for when my lung collapsed
I want boys too. Little boys are so effin cute. I mean, girls are too, but I just love boys. Ive always gotten along better with boys.
hospitals are ridiculous... my heart surgery was over $100,000 - and that was back like 12 years ago. now I bet it's almost a million or some shit
I loveee little boys! theyre SO adorable. I want a son, and I want him to have a firetruck and a dumptruck. and possibly wear glasses. AWWWWWWW
Same here. Little girls are so huggy/cuddly. And I can't handle that too well. I think I'd be more of a strict parent