Be honest

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bella Désordre, Feb 2, 2009.

  1. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    oh come on. it would be cute to dress a little girl. in little dresses, with matching shoes. :cheers2: and when she's 4 years old - take her to dance class!
     
  2. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    yeah, so did I... so did I. I was instead blessed with two girls.
     
  3. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    my dad wanted girls <3 he is SUCH a softie. but intimidating to the boyfriends. Which I appreciate.
     
  4. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    hahaha Well, I guess Im a believer in paying off debts. Besides, here in tx, they make you sign a form that you are aware that payment is due at the time of admission.

    We have too many people racking up hopital bills left and right. they've gotten smart about their shit.
     
  5. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    I have this professor who's into genetics and that stuff. She says its easy to manipulate those things. I have her article somewhere....How to conceive a boy and how to conceive a girl. It basically comes down to pH, sperms and alkaline/acid environment, depending on what gender you want :)
     
  6. babyhellfire

    babyhellfire Banned

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    I always assumed I would have a boy.Everyone in my family had boys 1st.Hubby has half sisters , but he is his fathers only child- I dunno , I just always felt we ware having a boy, but felt would like a girl just as much.. when I got the ultrasound and they said girl I was so happy though,much happier/excited than I expected to feel about having a girl.
    Plus, we didn't agree on a single boy name, so that was sort of a blessing LOL.

    In the early years, I really don't think boys and girls are all that different. There isn't a reason I can think having a boy would have really felt much different. Having a girl turned out to be very lucky, in naming ,and also in that her grandparents bought her a huge wardrobe of clothes because buying clothes for a girl was more fun for them.

    I do not look forward to the teen years with a daughter, but i guess no one really does.
     
  7. RELAYER

    RELAYER mādhyamaka

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    Yea your right.
    I would pay my medical bills, but considering that I was released early from the ER, treated as a junky, and told nothing was wrong with me only to be called back the next day, I say fuck them doctors, and fuck that hospital.
    I dont care if I have to jack a car to get Aura to a better hospital, Im never going there again
     
  8. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    Is is on the internet?
     
  9. babyhellfire

    babyhellfire Banned

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    I have heard quite a bit about that- like, how to alter the ph of the egg/sperm with the couples diet, or the timing, to make it more conducive to male sperm , or female sperm.
    I also read somewhere that people who are trying to have children end up with girls- because the peak of their ovulation the eggs ph is more conducive to female- and the end of the cycle when many assume they aren't ovulating any more the ph is more balanced for male.
    Interesting, but still not an exact science where you can accuratly pick what you will have by eating pineapples and going for the end of your cycle.
     
  10. babyhellfire

    babyhellfire Banned

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  11. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    No. Its in a medical journal. I'm saving it for future purposes :D
     
  12. Wild Mountain Dave

    Wild Mountain Dave Rainbow

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    wow, in my huge family, there are only two boys born. myself and my uncle. it's amazing how many females are in my family. great great gramma had 3 girls, great gramma had two girls gramma had 3 girls and one boy, mom had 1 girl one boy, i had two girls, my sister had two girls. That is 13 girls and 2 boys. Crazy.
     
  13. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I definitely knew at an early age that I wanted to be a mama.

    If my body and my husband's paycheck could handle more, I'd keep on having babies, because I love kids and miss having itty bitty ones around, as much as I try to convince myself otherwise. ;)

    I keep trying to convince hubby that we should foster parent, but he says I'll just get attached and end up crushed when the kids were placed elsewhere. He's right, I know it.

    As far as the sex of our babies goes, my husband said he wanted at least one son. He ended up with two sons, and one daughter, who is his little princess. I think we hit the jackpot. :)
     
  14. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    So there's no copies on the internet? (Y'know, so I could read it :D).

    EDIT: wait, I'm reading BHF's. :cool:
     
  15. booshnoogs

    booshnoogs loves you

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    Sometimes it's not so much a matter of wanting kids as much as not wanting to break rhythm and go get a condom
     
  16. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    word. My gran had 13 kids. 11 girls, two boys.
    of the 13 kids, Theres 7 girls, 3 boys.
    My sister and 3 cousins who have kids, are all girls.
    22 girls, 5 boys.
     
  17. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Yeah, that's basically it. Maybe its not 100% sure, but still....If someone wants to try it, why not....
     
  18. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    Sure, raising a child costs money, but when you have to pay for an adoption, that is a completely EXTRA cost that has nothing to do with whether you can afford to care for a child. That is a cost you pay before you even get them in your home.

    My babies were free up to the point where I brought them home from the hospital. Canadian health care ;) From that point on, everybody has a choice of how much they are spending and what they buy. Those typical "cost of raising a kid" numbers are bullshit.

    It's like you were saying you have no business buying a car unless you can afford a Mercedes.
     
  19. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    I wanted to be a mommy when I got pregnant and I am so excited to be a mommy and I feel ready!


    As far as costs... the only thing I have had to pay is for a small portion of ultrasounds.... and for prenatal vitamins! I will get a bill once the baby is born... which my insurance company pays for.... I have to pay an upward of $500. So, if you have good health insurance then honestly having a baby is MUCH cheaper then adopting.
     
  20. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    In both my extended family as well as my husband's family, there have been more male children born than female. Especially my husband's side. Funny thing is, most people on his side have at least three children, and the trend seems to be 2 boys, 1 girl, just like what we had. Except, we're the only one with twins on either side of the family. I'm hoping we started a trend that will be passed on down the line. ;)
     
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