That's exactly how I feel about it, but I have to deal with the same situation, at work, which was actually the worst. In my own building just yesterday..and it's just not cool.
I'm sort of in the vein that looking without touching isn't morally wrong. It might not get you laid, but it isn't morally wrong.
at this point in my life, after having been grabbed and hassled so much, i don't care if they stare, just don't fucking touch me. except this one guy at the naked hot springs in ridgeway. i swear, there were naked women all over the place, this fucktard had to stare DIRECTLY AT ME for half an hour. i don't care if he looked, but he STARED AND LEERED WITH A DISGUSTING LOOK ON HIS FACE for an entire half hour. asshole.
I really dont understand why they do these things. I mean to me, if you must get to that point, you are nothing but an animal, wihout any control over his actions.
I know. and I completely understand you. I really hate it when someone stares at me. It just makes me feel so uncomfortable. especially if its a 50 year old man.