Being bisexual or gay in today's MAGA society.........

............Though I had mentioned this earlier, I cannot help but wonder how gay/bi men (especially those closeted, or, at least, VERY discreet) are dealing with this rabid "MAGA" headhunting bullshit campaign, down in the less-than-tolerant "Bible Belt", like things weren't already difficult enough in those parts.............

 

Given the long-standing hostility faced by gay/bi men in the "Bible Belt", that "belt", it would seem, is more of a noose.............

 

What are you implying? That MAGA has declared open season on anyone who isn't straight? And how would they know this? It was well-known, back in the 1950s, that the Bible Belt was the "guardian" of our morality aka the Moral Majority, which over time became the Moral Minority because people said, "Fuck you; you don't get to tell me who I can sleep with or who I can love!" even though it tried to fight back, it got stomped in its metaphorical balls. They don't have the clout that they had in the 1950s and Trump is too busy fucking shit up to be giving order to hunt all non-heterosexuals down and... do what, exactly?

And more so when a lot more people are going around packing heat." What if they nab someone who is actually straight? What are they gonna say after stomping a mud hole in this person's ass? "Oh, sorry about that... we thought you were gay/bi/lesbian"? Do these fools think that Trump is going to pardon them for crimes committed against other Americans due to their stupidity and ancient beliefs around sex and sexuality? What's next - going after every race that isn't white? I foresee a lot of dead MAGAs as well as other people behind this stupid assed behavior. This is 2025, not 1950 and there is no going back to the way it used to be...

 

Sadly, I must agree with you; eventually, when the "pot" eventually boils over, there are going to be many casualties on BOTH sides......light-years beyond ugly.

Today's insane world totally cotradicts the way I was raised:

".....there is only ONE race....the HUMAN race......."

Being raised color-blind by my late mother taught me so many things, and enabled me to have many friends of different colors and races when I worked in the city, and I, indeed, was the richer for it.

"Supremists" (regardless of color) are truly screwed up big-time, for certain.

After all the many decades of racial and religious hostility (not to mention orientation discrimation) you would THINK that, by today (2025) we would have LEARNED something of great value........guess again..............

 

Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it. We never seem to learn from our history, so all of the dumb shit keeps cycling around. You didn't answer my first three questions, though...

 

KD23:

As to your questions:

"MAGA" is launching OPEN WARFARE on ANYONE who is NOT a Republican and NOT A Trump buttkisser.

And, as to "how would they know?"

You could see bars/clubs catering to gay and bi men come under close scrutiny, with evil, sinister "silent Gestapo" watching (recall "Stonewall"?)

These days, you have no idea WHAT may happen.

What I AM thinking about is how all this "MAGA" shit will effect basic gay rights, and, of course, gay marriage.

NO GOVERNMENT has the RIGHT to INTERFERE in ANYONE'S private life, case closed!

We hear enough horror stories coming out of Russia and the Middle East..............

 

Do they realize that they could march into a gay bar... and get their asses kicked? And there are some Democrats/Independents who'd put a bullet in them before taking any MAGA bullshit off of them? Again, as long as they have reason to believe that Trump will pardon them for any hate crimes that they commit, they're going to act like fools and what they may be trying to do is illegal as fuck and is not covered under the First Amendment; if they do this, it's just more proof of how fucking stupid they are. I repeat that this is 2025 and not the 1950s; MAGAs are going to start a war that they can't finish and a lot of people are going to die behind some seriously stupid bullshit and cheered on by a POTUS who, in truth, doesn't give a fuck about MAGAs or anyone who isn't "his favorite people," i.e., millionaires, billionaires, and foreign governments that hate the US.

 

KD23:

In TOTAL agreement with you, my friend..........100% all the way!

 

The thing I see as being the most important is that no matter how crazy shit gets coming out of DC, if you're gay or bi, uh, you're still gay or bi. I had realized, when I was 15 or 16, that no matter what anyone said or tried to do, I was still bisexual. Politics are never going to make me - or anyone else for that matter - not be bisexual unless, of course, they allow the political insanity to take their sexuality away from them and I can't imagine why anyone would want to do that. This is my life, and I will die as a bisexual and there isn't a fucking thing anyone can do about it.

If y'all don't feel the same way, you might want to get there and make your biggest concern as being able to get some dick...

 

KD23:

Damn right!

Politics will NEVER define who ANY of us are; we ARE who we ARE, and screw those who think or say otherwise!

You MIGHT thnk that trying to cure the many SERIOUS issues now plaguing our country would be of GREATER importance that obsessing over one's sexual orientation...........

 

Most folks these days, hearing the abbreviation "HD", think of "High Definition"; "HD", nowadays, also refers to our current administration:

"Highly Delusional"...............(!!)

 

You also have to wonder at just how many of these ultra-uptight, ultra-conservative, ultra-pios big-shot politicians frequently engage in "carnal pleasures" outside of their marriages (and there were/are many), BUT, of course, it is considered their God-given right, to screw as many women as possible, and do whatever they want, AS LONG AS it does NOT involve TWO MEN having sex together!!!

Their motto?

"As long as it ain't GAY, it's OK!"

These highly-paid hypoctites REALLY need a "reality check"........and FAST............

 

And I'd wager that most of them are lying their asses off. They're no different that the men I've hung around with who would bash gays like it was nobody's business - but behind closed doors? They loved getting some dick and the next day, they're out on the street again, bashing gays and loudly declaring how straight they are. It's their "God given right" to screw anyone they damned well want to male or female but like the dudes on the street, those high and mighty fuckers can't afford to have a scandal land on them so, sure - they'd denounce anything gay even though, later this evening, they're going to be some guy's cum slut.

See, just like those guys on the corner, they'd love for everyone to believe that they're all God-fearing Christians, members of the local church, gives to charities, so on and so forth but behind closed doors? They get to let their inner freak out to play and I've learned that if someone is really protesting too much, it's because they have something to hide like, oh, they're a superstar cocksucker and they like to be tied up BDSM-style and gang-fucked in the ass repeatedly. Or the women love to be tied up like a Christmas turkey and subjected to all things Sappho and some other things that good girls would never do.

So, as such, their motto doesn't mean a damned thing. That's like straight guys who love sex with men but says that as long as they aren't cumming in each other's mouth or ass, it's not gay. And if you're rolling your eyes and shaking your head, join the party. As if they're on the DL, I could care less and don't give a single fuck unless or until one of them rolls up on me and makes me an indecent proposal - now they'd have my attention. But until that happens - and I do not foresee it ever happening - those liars can kiss my ass and suck my dick - oh, wait, they'd probably love that, huh?

 

KD23:

Man, did you EVER hit the NAIL right on the HEAD, here!

Your comments, as always REALLY dig deep into the true TRUTH of the situation, that, regarding a lot of these so-called "straight family men", what you see does NOT nessacarily mean that THAT is what you'll get!!!!!!

It was not until after I had retired (after nearly 25 years at the same workplace) that I had to start wondering about some of the "straight, married" guys I used to see every day, the ones who only talked of tits and twat, and bragged to their buds about their on-the-side flings, and made no bones about how they felt about gays and bisexuals.

Yeah, ya gotta wonder..............

 

Recall, now, a number of years back, where "straight, married, religious family man" Newt Gingrich (slimeball personified) was grilled by a reporter:

"......you adamantly oppose gay rights, but, yet, you have been married three times, and have addmited to having an affair while you were still married to your second wife................"

The level of hypocrisy encountered with these double-standard assholes is beyond belief.

Guess ol' Newt never got to that part in the Bible, where it says:

"......let he who is without sin cast the first stone......."

Hmmmmmmmm...................

 

See, you do this and you're a philanderer and abuser of women but when you're up there in the higher ranks, it's just another Monday. You wind up looking stupid to be opposing gay rights when, over the weekend, you were with that 17-year-old twink and having all kinds of sex with him. Is it a double standard? In a way it is unless you happen to recall that he who has the gold makes the rules and, again, what would be immoral for me and you would be just another Monday to those who believe that the rules do not ever apply to them.

Any time you feel the need to let others know how much pussy you're getting, something's wrong; any time you start spouting the same old tired-assed rhetoric re homosexuals while claiming not to know anything about being gay, your sexuality could be called into question because the real haters of homosexuality don't have to get on their soapbox; they put their homophobia out there to let it be known and... don't you dare ever ask them about their stance on it again. A double standard or just a good old-fashioned blatant lie to always be ranting and raving against something that, in all honestly, you don't know shit about?

It's the "straight, married, religious family man" that I wouldn't trust because I happen to know that he believes in something that has more holes in it than a screen and is horribly biased and flawed and used as a weapon of hatred and in direct opposition of the New Testament which the haters and double standard bearers seem to conveniently forget even exists. And GG57, when such a man gives me an expert blowjob (and more than once or twice), how believable do you think he really is?

 

KD23:

Again, an excellent commentary, along with some sage, "on the mark" observations.

Man, if you only worked where I did for nearly 25 years (over 2500 people, at least 80% male), I know your "radar" would be working "full tilt" for sure, by the end of your first day, you would have gotten QUITE an EARFUL, for certain!

Of course, you'd be smart enough and worldly enough to "detect" just how much was "PUB", and what MIGHT have been "the real thing".

Being older (and perhaps a bit more wiser?) than I was back when I retired in 2004, I now wonder what some of these "high-rollin' hypoctites" were like, AWAY from the job.

High-end call girls were in BIG demand here (dumb as I was, even I could see that)......BUT.....how many of these guys might have acted to the contrary of their homophobic personas, and later on, after hours, "hook up" with a dominant leather bear, or even "got it on" with one of his pals from the job?

There was a LOT of "double-standard" bullshit down there, trust me.............

 

Posturing can be hilarious as you watch men strutting like peacocks and proclaiming their love for pussy - but they also have that "in case of emergency" thing as the last-ditch effort where if they found themselves hard up for sex, um, sure - they'd do it with a guy. If I had worked where you did, I would have figured out who all the players were the first or second day and who likes to have sex and who doesn't care who they have sex with by the end of my first month. All the other bullshit would be summarily ignored as I have zero patience and tolerance for office politics.

Men are opportunists. We're not going to pass up a chance to empty our balls unless there's a damned good reason not to and if that mean hooking up with that leather bear, well, any port in a storm...

 

KD23:

An older cousin of mine (who was both a broker and on the board of directors with one firm) was on his second wife when he worked not too far from my work station, and, let me tell you, all the "fat cat pussy hounds" KNEW to go to him when they wanted to get "fixed up" with a high-end callgirl (pictures of encounters at strip clubs were flaunted shamelessly, and these guys were literally salivating, like they never saw a women before....NO exaggeration).

I found it pretty embarrasing and tasteless, but I just ignored it.

He only spoke to me every year or two, just to see how my brother was doing in local politics; as he was virtually a millionaire by this time, he had little use for Mom, myself, and our family, as he obviously thought us "low class", and did not want too many to know that he had a cousin who was "low man" on the corporate totem pole.

I just took it from where it came, and dismissed his ignorance.

He DID have one helluva ass, though; SEXY 'stashe, as well!!

Anyway, who knows if he ever "dabbled" in m/m action? (I'd be a liar if I said I didn't jack plenty of times back then, thinking about nailing that meaty "big shot" ass and showing him who the TOP man REALLY was!)

All kidding aside, I felt no loss in his lack of cordiality towards me; he was arrogant, condescending, and too full of that "look how big I am" attitude.

To be fair, that attitude was as commonplace in my workplace as traffic lights on Broadway....TOTALLY turned me off, but, I didn't let it get to me.........

 

Just lean in a little and say "HEY Big Boy..." and watch them wet their pants.
The bully is always afraid on the inside.