Bf won't sleep with me!

Don't mean to sound like a bastard, but maybe he is going to dump you or is just not intending on being with you for so long.

It's the only thing I can think of which would constitute this sort of behaviour. I mean, losing your virginity to someone should be a big deal, and maybe he understands that and would feel terrible about doing the deed and cutting the chord so to speak.

Not trying to be a shit head, just how it sounds to me.

 

you could have laid it to her a bit nicer:/

 

How? I thought that was pretty polite actually!

 

any nicer and he would have just been lying to her.

 

That's what I figured. I know it's horrible, but there's obviously something up with the guy.

I am hoping it is not true, and I am sorry if it offended anyone. But I am just presuming the guy is decent enough not to want to take the virginity of someone he didn't care for. THAT I think would be harsh.

 

Yea you guys are right,i feel bad if that's the case though.

 

Me too.

Realistically speaking though, I think he is probably just a little coy. With one of my girlfriends I waited like 5 months and she was a little keener than me

I just didn't feel right about it, and maybe this dude doesn't either. I didn't suggest this in the first instance because I can't even figure why I was holding back at the time, didn't think anyone else could be as st00pid as me

 

maybe he's afraid he'll cum in 2 seconds and that you'll be disappointed and tell your friends. I knew a guy once who wouldn't screw his virgin gf for that very reason. So I screwed her instead and continued to do so for the next two years. I'm being serious too

 

hahahahaha :cheers2: Fair play.

If he wont even let you suck him off or give him a hand shandy tongue then it all sounds a bit strange. Theres only so much help strangers on the internet can give though. Youre the only one that knows what hes like, just approach the situation in the way that would suit him best...failing that..I dunno, bit of MDMA in his drink with a bit of viagra thrown in for good measure?

 

Hello guys and girls this is the reason why he won't. Now that this is figured out what can she do?

I really haven't a clue, all you can do is tell him how ready you are. Maybe tell him how much you love him and show him that you want him. You are not the other girl and he needs to realize this before there is too much sexual tension.

 

LOL, I think you sort of proved you're own point!

Never get help from strangers on the internet

 

Lead by example :cheers2:

 

oh, you're the boyfriend? so why the hell are you making silly excuses not to have sex with your lady?

everybody's had bad experiences. if you're dating someone who is going to let one bad experience in the past dictate their entire life, maybe you should start dating someone else.

 

:iagree:

Having baggage is something you can't avoid as you go through life.

Letting that baggage fuck up future relationships is the idiotic part...

 

I agree too.

 

As far as quality goes it isn't the first time that counts. It is the last time.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

maybe he has STD's???

 

He doesn't want to "ruin" you....?

Hhhmmmmmm

 

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