Bi because of options?

You are so right. My hubby is bi curious, but we don't tell people we swing with that because most freak out. Really, I don't see the problem. Just because a man is bi or bi curious doesn't mean he wants or has to fuck every man he meets! But that is the attitude we've noticed. Just because I'm bi it doesn't mean I want to fuck, or have to fuck, every woman I encounter! I don't want everyone! People and their hang-ups baffle me sometimes.