Bi-Guys Have you ever been asked by wife or girlfriend if you had ever sucked a cock?

When my wife found out I was bi she asked me if I had sucked cock.I have not (unfornunately I must admit). She then pressed on to ask me if I would like to. I told her that yes, if I could I would. I got a heck of an erection when I told her that.
During sex she now indulges me by having me tell her about my sexual fantasies which needless to say only involve men. It turns me on like crazy to tell her everything in detail. She was a bit shocked at first about my homosexual fantasies but now she encourages me to tell her everything that crosses my mind. She realizes there is a straight man in her every day life and a homosexual one in bed with her.
She hopes that this outlet will be sufficient to prevent from living out my fantasies with a man in real life.

 

I think she would like to see it in real life

 

She didn't directly ask if I ever sucked a cock but my wife knows I've sucked other men. We discussed our past experiences and I let it out a bit at a time. She's a great lover and has plenty of stories to stoke my fire and I trust her enough to talk about my experiences. At one point we realized that even though she has had sex with a lot more men than I have, I have definitely swallowed much more cum than her. She loves cum in her pussy. I love it in my mouth.
There's a quiz. Have you sucked and swallowed more men or has your wife?

 

I have by far sucked and swallowed more men. If I were to guess I'd say I've swallowed at least 4,000 loads of man cum. 2,000 of those loads were from my man of 14 years.

 

Oh, I know I have sucked and swallowed more than her, despite her past

 

Nice

 

I had one girlfriend who asked if I tasted semen. I gave her my background and that opened up a whole new chapter with her. We shared many men with her being comfortable to express her hunger for blowjobs as much as mine.
Another girlfriend asked if I ever did anything gay. That was the beginning of the end. She had a mean heart so she would have sex with other men before me and then sit on my face. When she found out I could tell and that I liked it she would tell me about her date while she rode my face.
If they ask, I tell them. I haven't regretted it yet.

 

This is just my personal opinion. If a woman asks a man if he's ever sucked a cock, she's most likely hoping he answers yes.

 

Before my wife and I married we had a "lay it all out there" conversation. Sort of a 'have you ever' thing. Turned out we both had enjoyed same sex play. But we have not had an update to that conversation since. And I hope we don't because I have...

 

No, but now I can't wait to tell whoever asks me, that I absolutely have engaged in man to man sex, and that it was fantastically enjoyable and exciting!!! I guess that'll be my "coming out" moment, eh?

 

My relationship with my long time yoga teacher changed, as I fell in love with her and made a move on her, which she accepted. I agonized over it but before we had sex I just had to tell her about my gay promiscuous past with hundreds of guys, all of which she asked a lot of details about, including what happened the last time I had sex with a guy, a week before. I can't tell you how hard it was, first of all to even tell her I was bisexual, but then to answer all her questions in detail about the sexual acts I performed on guys, how often and in what context. It was so embarrassing and even shameful, and left me raw and exposed. But shockingly, she fully accepted my past and believed my promise of monogamy, which I technically kept throughout our relationship. She just wanted me to be tested for all STIs before we had sex, which included having to wait for the HIV incubation period of three months.

We ended up being boyfriend/girlfriend for 3 years, on and off (she broke up with me many times, in unrelated circumstances). During our breakups she had sex with other guys, but I just engaged in tons of watching and reposting and writing about gay porn on Tumblr. She somehow found my profile, and wasn't happy. What did she expect? At least I never had sex with anyone during our breaks, like she did. One breakup was for 5 months, during which she and a new boyfriend were looking at rings! But every time she came crawling back to me, begging me to take her back, which I stupidly always did.

In the last 5 months of our relationship we agreed just to be friends with benefits. That was terrible. She was dating other guys, I was openly doing my gay Tumblr, and I ended up having to imagine I was with a guy in order to have my orgasm every time (I had no trouble giving her multiple orgasms--a very orgasmic girl). I eventually called it off at the very end of 2019. I couldn't wait to go absolutely crazy with guys, but then the pandemic hit. Dammit! But that relationship, and all my failures with women throughout my entire life, left me without any desire to have a romantic or sexual relationship with a woman again, which still sits with me. I'm only interested in guys now.

 

Women are high maintenance

 

Wifes rule is, I can suck all of the cock I want(and she would like to watch) but NO WOMEN ALLOWED, unless special circumstances permit it. That hasn't happened in decades.

 

My wife is no longer sexually active and is aware of the group of people I have sex with from time to time. She was involved many times in the past, so she's gotten to know all of them quite well. She knows I desire to suck cock on a regular basis and is perfectly OK with me doing so. She knows she has nothing to worry about being I restrict my sexual activities to this small group of men. Yes, from time to time my man's wife will join him and I in a threesome but for the most part my sexual activities are mostly just sucking cock.

 

I concur. Sounds custom made for a threesome.

 

It sure does to me too

 

There are women out there who prefer and look for bi guys. There's a reason gay porn is one of the top viewed categories by women. Try Feeld, OKCupid. Bisexual Playground and BiCupid don't seem as great. Heck there are even some single women on Grindr and Sniffies who REALLY want bi guys! Many,but not all of these women are queer or bi, so join local LGBTQ groups. Also try polyamory meetup groups, as about 20 - 40% of poly guys are also bi, and the women are often bi. Go to comic cons, and Ren fairs, join table top role playing game groups, as a higher than ave % are bi, queer, poly or non monogamous.
If you only want guys, that's ok, too. But don't let that bad experience with the yoga teacher sour you on women!

 

If my wife ever asked me that I don't think I'd be able to lie, but would probably admit to having tried in the distant past before we met. I think she might suspect I am bi anyway but I'm too worried about how she'd react to come out to her, sadly

 

Erm...... My wife tells me to suck her bulls cock.