Bi men and aging

In a book i recently read, there is a statement that really says it all:

".......there is no greater religion than truth........."

I've also read that, many people are so terrified of facing the truth, they put up walls to protect themselves from it.

And, as we both know, to make matters worse, we have far too many accepting lies, religious propoganda, and "PUB" (Pure Unadulterated Bullshit) as "gospel truth".

Here is where the deadly seeds of ignorance and bigotry are sown..............

 

They often say, "with age comes wisdom".

If that is indeed the case, then we all should be able to decipher the huge gap between truth and bullshit.

Again, far too many are terrified of facing the truth; so they use lies as shields....................

 

Still, as you age, you should know the truth; you're able to keep the dumb shit in the trash where it belongs. You should be unaffected by the lies and other dumb shit. More than comfortable in your own skin.

 

Totally agree, my friend.

Too bad that too many still take many situations and statements at face value only, and still refuse to see the difference between bullshit and the truth.

The sad thing is (forgive me for using the words "common sense" again) common sense SHOULD be telling you: "Hey, this is nothing more than bullshit."

Another old saying:

".....the TRUTH is the TRUTH, even if it does come from the village idiot......"

 

Weird also, and kind of screwed up, where some people find it so easy to accept a LIE as TRUTH, and yet, have such a difficult time accepting what is TRUTH.

Ahhh, you gotta wonder at some people...............

 

IMHO, once a bi/gay man "comes to grips" (pun NOT intended!) with his sexuality, and tunes out all of the lies, bullshit, and negativity, I truly believe that allows said man to be at peace with who he is, what he is, and where he is, at his stage in life.

When you get to be a senior, you surely have HAD to have learned SOMETHING through your adult life, and, also, LEARNED from it...............

 

with regard to race, I have noticed bi-men, regardless of color , engage in fun and play regardless of the cock color. It seems white boys seek to
try a BBC now days. I'm not lucky enough to have drained a BBC as a MWM, but there is always tomorrow............... Any N.J. BBC agree with me ??

 

Well, when all is said and done, a COCK is a COCK, regardless of color; I think a lot of gay/bi guys are pretty much "intrigued" by the long-standing myth that ALL black men are hung like mules, which, of course, is simply NOT the case.

There are HUNG men in ALL races, just as there are SEXY men in ALL races.

IMHO, if a bi/gay man is looking to have sex with another male, the man's color/race is secondary.

If he is SEXY, and he turns you on, and HE is turned on by YOU as well, that's the all of it in a nutshell, friends!

 

Further on the long-perpetuated myth that ALL black men are hung............

Think, also, of how many times a bi (or gay) white male might just be about to get into interracial sex with a black man, and then, when the white guy reaches into the black man's pants, he is already disappointed that he is not about to haul out an 11" trouser python, only a shaft of "average" length.

"No thanks, maybe another time." the white guy says, now totally dejected.

Ever think of how this "myth" about how overly-endowed all black men area has ruined a loot of otherwise hot interracial m/m action?

Some guys just can't seem to see the difference between fantasy and reality.............

 

Is BIGGER really BETTER?

What would you rather have?

A guy with a BIG cock who doesn't really know how to use it to full advantage, OR, a guy with an average-sized shaft who KNOWS how to use it to maximum advantage?

Think about it.....................

 

As I say, I learned the hard way that bigger isn't always better and there aren't too many things worse than having a guy with a huge dick brutalizing you with it and because he thinks that's what he's supposed to do with it. We are deep into having preferences in this and I don't have any because I also learned that a guy's dick... is what it is and the moment you start "sorting them by size," you actually miss out on some good dick because of a preference that, perhaps, you shouldn't have. Sure, I've been salivating over the chance to suck a guy's cock and he pulls out... a long snake! My mind would say, "Oh, shit, that fucker's big!" but I learned that it's not so much that his dick was big but did he know how to behave himself while I blow him? Being gagged by big dicks was never my idea of fun but when you love to suck cock as much as I do - and when you've had all shapes and sizes of dicks since the first one - size doesn't matter a whole lot but other factors do. You've shared that you're 9" and I wouldn't have any problems sucking you off... unless you gave me some problems and, sadly, a lot of big-dicked guys feel that they have to make getting sucked off harder than it already is.

I would rather have... a dick that's attached to a guy who doesn't think, behave, or act like an asshole or, gasp, fancies himself as a porn star. I have yet to come across a dick that I couldn't suck - but there are men who I wouldn't suck if lives were on the line...

 

KDaddy23:

As usual, well-said and right-on-the-mark.

You brought up a VERY good point.

Too many well-hung guys think that, because they are so amply endowed, it gives them the right to destroy another guy's asshole (unless the other guy is LOOKING to get his ass wrecked by a massive trouser snake) or make him gag and choke because he is fucking his throat with total abandon.

Yeah, I DO have (as you duly noted) a fairly thick 9-incher, BUT, would THAT give me the right to virtually rape another guy, just because I want to prove what a "big-dicked guy" is capable of?

Hell, no!

Recall the old saying: "be careful what you wish for"?

I had related to you awhile back that there is a website ("It's Gonna Hurt.com") that continues to perpetuate the tired old myth that ALL back guys are HUNG like horses, and ALL gay/bi white guys want, need, and CRAVE to have their white butts ripped into by a thick 11" black cock.

When you are with a guy with a cock that huge (regardless of race or color) do you REALLY want him to use that monster on your ass?

Is the REALITY of what you THOUGHT you wanted fast-dissolving into a scary reality?

You would think that, by now, we'd be all smart enough to put all of these redundant myths and stereotypes to rest...............guess society STILL has a lot to learn..........

 

Well, yeah, sure - he can stick it in there as long as he acts like he's got some sense when he does - and too many guys with big dicks also watch porn and see other guys with big dicks just brutalizing some poor bottom who is trying to act like he's enjoying it and, again, giving a lot of men the idea that this is how men are supposed to have sex with each other... when I know better. I also know that a lot of guys have this thing for big dicks, and they haven't even had a dick! Then they find out that getting that big dick laid on them wasn't what they thought it would be and now there's yet another bi guy who has been disillusioned and put off from being bisexual and, oh, yeah, learning that bigger isn't always better. Right this very moment, there's a guy with a huge dick in his mouth or ass and he's wishing that it wasn't and he's feeling some kind of way knowing that he believed the hype.

It's a lesson all of us wind up learning and now it becomes a matter of whether or not learning the lesson is going to fuck with you or you just... take it in stride as being a part of the reality we have to live with and, sadly the stereotypes in this are part of the reality since so many find reason to believe it. It makes for an interesting fantasy and for men who, as far as they know, aren't planning on getting naked with a guy with any sized cock and since they prefer to go with this, you're not allowed to question one's preferences one way or the other nor can you question or argue their right to fantasize about anything they want to.

As such, the stereotype continues to live on; for some, bigger is better and they've proven this to themselves and for others, worst decision ever made. I'm not impressed because, again, I've had dicks of all shapes and sizes and it's not the size of the dick that is problematic: It's the dude it's attached to. There are guys who have average cocks who I wish I hadn't slept with, but I did and that's on me.

 

Again, you brought another often-neglected item to light.

TOO many guys, watching porn, take it as ALL REALITY.

Do they REALLY know just WHAT a guy is feeling, having his ass pounded hard by a thick 11" cock?

Is he REALLY enjoying it as much as it appears on screen?

OK, MAYBE he is, BUT, then again, it MUST be remembered, that, after all, these are ACTORS who are getting PAID to act as the directors order them to.

Here again, making "fantasy" into your "reality" does NOT automatically mean that all will go as smoothly as you have imagined.

I know there are lot of well-endowed men (of all persuasions) who think that, just because they are amply hung, that this alone will make them into "sex gods" of sorts.

Sorry, guys, but that is NOT the way the REAL world works........

 

I've been reamed out by dicks from 9" to a measured 13" and... most of the time, it's been a delicious experience with some "nightmares" mixed in because you never know what's going to happen until it actually does. But porn wants you to believe what you're seeing like do you really believe it's that easy to get a cock of any size into someone's ass? I've only fucked two guys who I didn't need lube to get into them and if you're gonna bone me, bring a tanker truck of lube! Do the guys with big cocks see themselves as sex gods? Some do and they think that having a big dick is all they need... and all you'd ever want. A lot of big dicked guys who are having sex with men are doing so because women don't want anything to do with their big dick - and that should tell you something since, supposedly, all women like really big dicks - and porn says so.

I really don't remember if I've ever seen porn that has guys with average sized dicks as the "star" of the show.

 

Though I have, of course, over the years, seen MORE than my share of m/m porn where the "stars" are indeed the one hung like mules, in all honesty, I cannot recall seeing any where the "star" (regardless of color) was a guy with an average-sized dick.

Is it any wonder, then, why so many gay/bi guys look at m/m porn, and take it all at "face value" only, believing that, because they are actually SEEING it, translates into: "Hey, man, this is the REAL deal! Believe it!)

While common sense nowadays seems to be more and more of a rarity, gullibility, it seems, remains as strong as ever..............

 

Average-sized pricks carry no excitement to them; they don't have the "holy shit" factor that big dick inherently have. Big cocks make you ask, "How is he gonna get that in her/him?" and thanks to some movie stuff the viewer never sees, that huge prick slides on in there and like it was... average size or below. Some guys know they're looking at "fantasy" more than "reality." Some guys are... blinded by the light, as it were and, yeah, wow, I wonder if I could handle a dick that big - wouldn't that be fun? Well, it could be; it might be but as I said, you never know what's going to happen until it does and, uh, feeling that huge cock head opening the tightness of your bung hole, well, yeah, maybe now you wish you had a teepee for it instead of having the Loch Ness monster resizing your anus.

And it's a nice fantasy to jerk off to. Your mouth and ass are safe because you have no intention of finding out if a big dick is as good as reputed... or you've imagined. The bigger question, methinks, is why are bi/gay guys so fascinated with big, ass-ripping cocks? Are we really grown-assed men suffering from a perpetual case of penis envy?

 

"Penis envy"...................

This pretty much all starts are in the boy's locker room during PE, in the junior high days.

"Wow! Did you see the size of Dave's dick? Man, what a fucking monster!"

I know I've read too many accounts (posted here and elswhere) of teen males who are not only astounded by the cock size of their buds, but, maybe, just maybe, wanting to "try it on for size", but, as ANY gay behavior is deemed "faggy" or "just not right", these guys can do nothing more than "play" with their bud's cocks in their j/o fantasies.

Being such a die-hard "ass man" (as you are already aware!), I never thought of the size of a guy's cock as much as I did the shape and size of his butt globes.

Sure, the sight of a decent-sized cock, rock-hard, and ready for action IS enticing, to be sure, but, hell, I sure as hell are not going to fantasize and swoon over mental images of men who are NOT "average" in the dick department.

You've got what you've got.......now, use it accordingly and to the best of your ability...........

 

I say that you should be careful what you ask for. There weren't that many of my buds who, when I saw their dick, I was astounded by it, but they were mostly average to just above average. What would get my attention would be seeing their cock and, oh, my, it's getting hard! Faggy? I can assure you that it really isn't because there's nothing faggy about me - and gay men don't own playing with a dick.

A hard cock is a thing of beauty whether it's small or "how does he get it in his pants?" But you live and learn and I do hope that you don't find out the hard way or that you have a lot of regret because you weren't careful about what you asked for.

 

I certainly agree with you, there.

A hard cock IS indeed a thing of beauty; there seems to be something both primitive and powerful about a cock that is fully erect, hard as a rock, and ready for the battlefield!

Can a guy be proud of his cock?

Well, I'm sure dang proud of mine.....BUT....I NEVER let the size of my cock go to my head, and get me to thinking that I was some sort of "superman".

Ever notice on classical statues from ancient Rome and Greece, how the male genitals are so dang tiny they ARE laughable!

But, again, it is not about WHAT you have, but HOW you USE it............