Bi men and aging

As usual, yet another excellent, thought-inducing posting..........

 

If a regular exercise routine is thought to be important to many seniors, perhaps, then, if regular sexual activity counts as "exercise", well then, talking about "killing two birds with one stone".....

 

Yes.

 

If jacking is considered "exercise", than I must rank right up there with Jack LaLane (well, ANY "muscle" will get bigger if you exercise it enough!)

Sorry, couldn't resist that one!

 

Not sure if that qualifies as an exercise but it sure feels good to do it!

 

You've got that right! (and I've got the callouses on my right palm to prove it!)

 

It is interesting to think of how many "vanilla" gay or bisexual men, as they age, come to discover that "walking on the wild side" is far more tastier (and fulfilling!)

That, as they are now seniors, they discover that the "kinks" and "fetishes" they might have dismissed in their younger years now make their sexual experiences even more enjoyable than they had imagined...........

 

When I was like 32 or 33, I hooked up with a guy who was 55 and... looking for his first experience. We talked about this at length because I wanted to make sure that he was making the best decision for himself and the highlight of our pre-sex talks was him telling me that this "need" to suck cock had only just hit him a week ago and out of nowhere. He went on to tell me that he'd been straight all of his life, was married and divorced a couple of times, had kids, on the dating scene with women and after striking out on his last date, he said that "something" told him that it was time to have oral sex with a guy - and the urge had confused him while driving him to find a guy he could, as he put it, "Lose my cherry again!"

I took his cherry, and he was more than pleased with how things went as he learned how to suck cock and swallow cum (with a little difficulty at first but that was to be expected). I had admitted to him that I didn't really understand how a guy could go through his life and never have a single thought about sex with a man but he hits the 40-50 range and, all of a sudden, they have an intense craving for sex that, until now, they didn't believe in and didn't want anything to do with.

I still don't understand it. Just like I don't pretend to fully understand how a guy who gets hung out to dry because the wife has given up on sex decides that the solution to this dilemma is... to have sex with a man - and they've never even thought of it before, never watched gay porn, etc.. I've seen older guys running wild with kinks and fetishes that, when they were younger, they wouldn't dare get into, but I hazard the guess that when we get older, we... stop giving a fuck about sociosexual norms and 'now' is the time to do the things that didn't get done before - and playing catch-up.

The first time I sucked the 55-year-old off, he was damned near in tears because he'd said that he had never imagined that getting head from a guy could feel so incredibly good; he had said that he didn't think that he could return the favor - and I had already told him that he didn't have to - and I wasn't surprised when he went down on me and it took him about thirty seconds to figure it out and get into it. Gave him the warning that I was going to cum and, again, I wasn't all that surprised when he didn't stop sucking me until he'd gotten my cum and managed to get and keep it down (he almost didn't). I wasn't surprised to hear him say that doing this with me felt right and normal and, yeah, why didn't this hit him when he was younger?

Tried anal and he wasn't a fan (again, not surprising) and I was once again amazed at how a man his age, with no prior experiences with a guy and no thoughts about homosexual sex, had gotten bit by the bisexual bug and "convinced" him that what he needed to do was, well, become a cocksucker. The last time I had talked to him, he was busy giving his male friends blowjobs.

Another older guy had said, when I asked him why he was looking to suck dick, "I've done everything a man can do with a woman, so this is the next thing on the list of things to do!" and his answer made sense - but he didn't speak on what put the idea in his head in the first place so, I still don't know how and why this happens... I just know that it does.

 

They often say:

"Age is but a number".

That number (for obvious reasons) should be "69"..........

 

Well, um, I'll be 69 next month...

 

Allow me then to wish a VERY happy (if early!) birthday 69!

Sure hope you celebrate accordingly..........

 

Still not cleared to have sex, but when I am... mothers, lock up your sons and daughters!

 

Near the start of this topic, I recounted on how a gay telephone friend of mine (who was in his early 90s) was enjoying sex with several male buddies (gay and bi) at least a few times each week (and I mean REALLY enjoying it!)

His health went downhill fast only just a month or so before he passed at age 93 (I suspect Alzhiemers/pneumonia).

So........IF I guy can STILL enjoy sex at that adamced age.......that is, of course,.....if he is enjoying reasonable good health...........

 

Think, also, of the "advanced senior" gay/bisexual man who has outlived not only his life partner, but, also, his FWBs.

Does he try to establish connections with new FWBs, or just call it a day?

Guess it all depends on both the age and the state of health of the fellow of "advanced years".......

 

Aging, for anyone (regardless of orientation) is never a pleasant topic.

Scary thing is, it sneaks up on us all so silently, so swiftly, that we have no idea that "old age" is indeed upon us until we happen to look into the mirror one fine morning, and THEN realize how old we've become.

NEVER a plesant experience, for certain................

 

I look in the mirror every morning and wonder where the old guy looking back at me came from. Is it an unpleasant experience? Yeah, sometimes, it is and considering what's going to eventually happen but, then again, I know too many people who didn't get to be my age or to grow old/older. So, I'm an old bisexual. Ageing hasn't changed that about me and, then again, why would it since being bisexual isn't just about being able to have sex but it's a way to be as well as a state of mind and it makes being older rather thrilling to have 60 years of active bisexuality under my belt and I continue bask and revel in it without fear. Without guilt. Without regret. I've done what I've done, and I will do what I'm going to do and as long as I'm alive to do it.

And I don't hear any fat ladies singing.

 

KD23:

It seemed that my hair (thankfully, I still have that!) was jet back forever; then, BOOM! One day I'm salt-and-pepper....and then, WHAMMO.......ALL gray!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've already outlived one of my two late brothers by six years, and outlived both my parents......where the hell did the years get to?

Hey, life ain't no bed of roses, but, hell, I'm just glad to STILL be alive and kickin'!

 

I remember when I used to have a head full of hair...

 

I remember when mine was jet black, and my senior years were still light-years into the future.....

 

Jet black, sporting a huge afro that had to be braided most of the time. Then, when I was 35, I was at the bank taking care of some business and happened to look at myself in a security camera monitor that was kinda right there and... saw this bald spot in the back of my head - the crown of my head? Anyway, I knew I'd fallen victim to male pattern baldness and, yeah, thanks for that, dad.