Bi men and aging

JDog12----I guess it indeed is a bit difficult to find another guy for "fun" and friendship when you are a bi senior; but-hey-you just do not know when a "chance" encounter can turn into a lasting "relationship"-allowing you to "bond" with another guy on a regular basis------good luck!

 

Gay and bisexual seniors do indeed encounter challenges that straight seniors would not encounter (clearly it is easier [and safer] to seek partners) than it would be for seniors who are either gay or bisexual------

 

I know what you mean I’m having a hard time finding a partner that is gay or bi like me .

 

I cannot be easy-for sure-----but-hopefully------the "right guy" will be "within your scope" in the not-too-distant future-----and you can then enjoy yourself fully with another fellow who also shares your preferences------

 

I hope so I do miss having a partner that loves to cuddle and kiss and have passionate sex with . It’s been a long time since I had someone that loves what I love .

 

Once you again find that "right guy"-and start in on a new and rewarding relationship with each other-----you can put the past behind you and concentrate on the "here and "now"-----and ENJOY what you can offer each other!

 

I hear you I hope I find the right guy that would be so awesome. And thank you for saying that

 

Good luck to you friend!

 

Thanks I’m going to need it friend

 

There are those instances where "good luck" appears when you least expect it to------just keep on looking (and hoping)-and you just could find yourself with a new "friend" that you can enjoy a lot of "fun" with------

 

I will keep looking and I hope to find someone

 

At 64, I am in the best shape of my life. I’ve never been with another man, but I would do it with the right man.

 

My husband posted this thinking he was on his SN

 

Certainly hope that what you are seeking in another guy will soon be within your sight-----and-----when you do successfully "connect"------sure hope it's all you wanted and will be a long-lasting "relationship"!

 

"Connections" ("hook-ups") can be difficult enough for gay guys-but it is clear that it is quite difficult for bisexual guys-especially if they are older fellows with a wife------------

 

Hooking up is difficult - period. It seems to me that guys aren't all that interested in casual sex - they want relationship sex so they're not fans of good old-fashioned NSA sex. It just makes getting some dick harder than it has to be and for a lot of men and no matter their orientation, age, or marital status.

Then, when you consider that most guys have a list of preferences that's pretty involved, this, too, can make hooking up or trying to find an FWB a pain-in-the-ass and I do not mean in that nice way to get a pain in the ass.

I'm still miffed that a guy I was interested in blowing dissed me because my dick was a half-inch short of what he preferred - and I still don't know why that half-inch made such a difference to him, but it did.

Wives can make this difficult because of the threat they pose; you get discovered getting some cock, you're going to lose everything... but that has never really stopped married men from getting the cock they want and need, and I've found that the wife sometimes knows hubby is getting some dick and she isn't letting him know that she knows.

You can't be all that risk-adverse and expect to be able to hook up with anyone.

 

And that’s what I’m looking for is a relationship I really do like one night stands

 

But I rather be in a relationship with one night stands you never know what can happen. I do try to stay away from one night stands. And it’s been a long time since I had one . And now I’m really looking for a relationship I’m getting to old for one night stands..

 

Thanks Grayguy 57

 

KDaddy23: Well said-----we all know that if a bi guy with a wife is caught (or "outed"he indeed runs the risk of losing it all; a great deal is at risk when a bi guy is getting it on with other guys-and hoping the wife does not find out (or his kids)-----all hell could literally break loose------in this case-a single bisexual guy can "play the field" without risking dire consequences if the wife finds out---------