the Gay mafi will take over the world... If you cross us, we put you in a pair of really fetching, accessorised concrete shoes.
that of course is right after they redecorate the ocean that you'll be spending your last breath in to look fabulous!
I first realised i was attracted to women when i was about 13 or 14. Im still a girl on girl virgin. The whole thing is much more scary than when i lost my virginity to a guy, i guess its because i waisted my virginity to a guy where as this is a second time round to do it right. However im currently with a guy (Jaycee) and am totally infatuated. I dont want to name myself as anything like gay or straight or bi. .... i think everyone has the possibility of fancying and loving anyone rguardless of sex, height, haircolour, race etc.
I've been having the same problem as some of the posts listed here. I am 15 and a sophomore in high school. In 8th grade I made out and fingered a girl and I LOVED IT! but I thought it was just the experience.... then late last year, my best friend, who is a lesbian, and I made-out and I started having feelings for her which I didn't think as anything at all. I got over it because she was with someone else but she has recently broken up with this girl and I have feelings for her all over again. It feels much more different from having feelings for a guy. It feels more passionate and real. I still like guys though so I figure I needed to come to terms with myself and be real- I'm bi. I'm really happy about it and it is nothing to be ashamed of. But then there is this situation with my best friend. She doesn't want to be with me because she thinks we are too good of friends but she is physically and emotionally attracted to me. Right now it is tough and I talk to her about it all the time. She is in love with someone else and still working on gettin over her ex. I told her and she said she has thought about it and needs time but it doesn't look as if she wants to be with me. it is always on my mind and makes me really sad so thats why I was talking about it. Thanks for stickin through my stupid story. Oh and one more thing. I live in a small,boo-foo town and there are hardly any gay,lesbian, or bi communities. It is hard to meet others and I was wondering if anyone had any "tips" or advice. Thanks guys.
It sounds like you're just shying away from it. Do what your heart tells you to, do what feels right I know so many girls out there who enjoy playing with other girls, but that's all they want, just play. I mean who can resist the female body right? /I love reading threads started by april, or contributed to by her for that matter
You took the words right out of my mouth. I've always been attracted to girls, but if you have to call me something then i'm "straight" as people can call it, but i really dont consider myself anything, just me. i've had a few experiences with girls but never had sex with one. Last night i kissed a girlfriend i've always fancied and i felt really good about it, like i wasn't trying to hide it, cos it felt natural...i just went and asked her, you want to kiss me? and she looked at me and said, oh my god, yeah! and we kissed for about one minute..it was really hot!! i could feel my heart beating real fast cos i was overflowed with this intense feeling of doing something i really wanted to do (i kinda fancy her for a long time).... besides, i dont really want anything to do with guys for the moment (lol). i want to experience myself as a sexual being, not a woman, or whatever, just myself.
14 when I knew I was attracted to girls 15 when I knew I was full fledged bi And I have yet to lose my virginity to a girl... mmm, I can't wait!
i agree it's kind of young, but you also have to consider the fact that some people who lose their virginity early were pressured into it and it wasn't their own choice