Big D*cks Are Overrated

Why is it always that the bolt that is too small? Can't the nut ever be too big?

 

I've experiences a few women who were so obviously too large down there for the average size dick. They would be a perfect match for the larger than normal size dick. Based on women's reactions I am just slightly larger that the average dick and there were about a dozen or so girls that were from slightly to very uncomfortable with either my depth or width. So no such thing as normal.

 

My girlfriend played around with several other girls. They all had huge dildoes, bigger than any man she was ever with. So I guess size mattered to them. She did mention, a girls big dildo, I never gave it much thought, and would have never known, if she hadn't pointed the John Holmes model out when we were shopping for one for her. She told me that was too big, that she didn't want one that big.

 

She did prefer the real thing, another girlfriend set her up with a guy, who was good at everything. We had talked about her being with another man for over a year, but it was her girlfriends, who finally made it happen. I didn't watch or join in the first time, but she wasn't long setting up another meeting. He did hook us up with some other couples, and help us get a start in swinging. My girlfriend would have loved him being a steady fwb, but he liked meeting new women. She had other guys, but she said none compared to him. He did spend a lot of time giving her oral. So some of these guys proved that big isn't always better, but she said the same about less endowed guys. And I was better than average on the thick side, so she never done with out size.

 

If you ever have a mfm for your wife, which sounds like, you would like from other post. I think you'll like, and her too. I wasn't sure in the get go, but once it started. It was great. I know she had the right mind set, from all her girlfriends telling her how good this guy was, at every thing. And I was having sex with others so I couldn't refuse her.

 

It's easy to make a dildo using your own Homer as a model. Take Plaster of Paris and liquid silicone. The toughest thing is keeping Homer stiff for several minutes. You need a cutie sucking on your nipples.

 

I've explained this in many other threads. When given the choice women select the larger cock to mate with. Place examples of just erections of different sizes and women select the largest size to have sex with for a one time fling. For a long term relationship they opt for a size smaller but do not choose the smallest or any below the second largest penis presented. This has been studied multiple times before and the results are the same. Without seeing the man attached to the penis the big dick is chosen way more often than not.

 

Sorry Barry, I don't buy it. Studies are easily skewed is one reason(and this subject would be at the top of the list to be predetermined). Women just like men can be socially brain washed in buying into what they should pick. Yes a big cock like big tits will catch your eye like an elephant running down the street, doesn't mean you want one as a pet. I had a gf that said cock is the last reason why she would fuck someone. Others expressed fear of large ones. I'm average at about 6.5" and had several complain that I bottomed out and it hurt. I really think the size thing is mostly manufactured, although I wouldn't argue that guys and gals wouldn't have fun talks about it, my experience is even if a woman expresses liking a big dick(which 90% of the one I know don't), they still pick a man for other reasons regardless of dick parameters.

 

I agree with FWKbi Barry. I've had more than my share, and a slightly larger normal range hurts in some women for various reasons. The elephant metaphor is good. Here is another position. Girls see a big cock and all say WOW I want that, but only if it fits with comfort, but a cock is such a small percentage of a relationship.

Guys see what's perceived as the perfect woman's body and wants to fuck it like a boy toy all night but what's the relationship going to be all about? If your entire waking moments are all about sex and nothing more than go for it but if you actually want to enjoy the relationship for years to come than a compatible mind connection over rules the sex candy aspect.

When the minds connect and you've been together for a few years and your woman mentions she'd be interested in a monster cock or cocks for a night and you wouldn't mind a night in a threesome with a couple of 20 year old bomb shell beauties, then maybe something can be worked out where both are sexually fantasy satisfied.

However, eventually the relationship goes back to normal and the mind connection remains.

 

Well said!

 

Both of these objections are based on a small sampling of personal experiences and not a scientific study in a controlled environment. My post is based on fact. It is not my opinion but fact based on a published report of a study done by staff at The University of California - Los Angeles and The University of New Mexico. The paper, published online September 2, 2015, can be read at this link. Women's Preferences for Penis Size: A New Research Method Using Selection among 3D Models
Again it is not my opinion but fact that has been produced. Women select larger penises to mate with. Plus 27% of the women surveyed said they ended a relationship partially due to the difference of their penis size preference and their partner’s actual penis size being too small. Further, the study shows that women indicated that a small penis was more of a problem than a penis that was too big. Again this is not my opinion but a scientific study. Now if I might add personal experience to this. Not one of the over 30 women I have had sex with in my lifetime have complained about my larger than average cock even though there have been a few who could not accept my full length buried deep inside their vagina. The conclusion is that big dicks are not overrated but desired by most women when presented with 3d examples of erect penises, including mine.

 

Research shows that 75% of men are between 5 and 7 inches alas making 6 average. only 1% are bigger than 9. Of course that means 1 in every one hundred. Big cities.... I guess have more haha. who fucking cares.....Mentor woman I knew told me great sex is more about what is going on between the ears not between the legs... If you think you need a big dick to get you off then you do... also if you dont you dont

 

My wife’s lover has a thicker dick than me but not as long. She loves the way he stretches her pussy. She said having a thick one and a long one is like having the best of both worlds!

 

You think she might dump the 2 of you for a combo?

 

I'd like to think the saying "it's not the size, but how you use it" were true...
That being said, I know for a fact that my wife's boyfriend has a bigger cock than me (he's 8" and THICK to my 7" and fairly thick).
She's always "insisted" That it's not about him being bigger and thicker than me, that it's just "different."

 

During my single years, I had some lovers tell me , that it was uncomfortable.
The best way to satisfy them , especially if they were shallow, was to let them get on top, control the motion and slowly " work me " in.

I was my wife's first, I was amazed, considering her looks, physically attributes and personality.

But if a guy is large, some gals won't try it or enjoy it , contrary to what most men think .

 

My wife's lover over 3 years has almost 2 inches longer dick than me, but not that thick as my dick. He fits best in her ass, where my dick don't fit that well in her ass coz of thickness, but I fit her pussy.... So it depends where you use it..

 

I've never heard a woman talk about having great sex with a little penis.