Big girls (again)

i'm not really short haha, i'm like 6'2

 

I actually think that you think too much of yourself

As far as I have read, no female has ever so much as given you the time of day, and for good reason

You will be lucky to ever get a girlfriend with your terrible attitude and lack of experience..plus you are so on edge i would not be surprised at all if you ended up hurting a girl

 

That's a really good point. I didn't think of that. The only boyfriends I have been scared of have been ones with horribley low self-esteem. That didn't click for me until I just read your post.
You should be a female seminar person (you know what I mean)

 

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People with low self-esteem and moody hard to get along with and in my experience very needy. They need to be reasured about everything and it gets relly old after a while. Why be with someone who is not comfortable with you they are? It doesn't work.

 

why be with someone who is unlikeable and not fun with absolutely no insight who acts like a total uptight prick to everyone?

 

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I have heard you talk about this endlessly, and then complain about the results you get from acting like that

Either work on yourself and change your image and attitude, or you will be alone for life. Thats all that needs to be said.

Act human

 

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What is wrong with being nice? I have never heard a man be called gay for being nice. I think you have a lot of issues with who you really are and with the way others see you. You think that being nice or kind means being soft and that is not true some of the kindest people I know are also some of the strongest people I know. You need to worry about who you want to be instead of worrying about how others see you... When you are comfortable with yourself other people will start understanding you better. Right now, you seem so confused it is hard to understand what you are trying to say.

 

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you are not tough or strong if you will crumble under the slightest bit of criticism or insult

change your attitude or die alone.

You may as well act nice, because you are the definition of soft right now

you are in college now, there is no need to walk around like some tough guy

 

Why do you think nice is soft and vulnerable? I am a nice person I am not soft of vulnerable. I stand up for myself when I need to and I don't let people take advantage of me but I am still nice. I don't think you really understand what nice is.

 

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hahaaaaaa I love you're fergie pic! There was another picture of her sweating 'there' a few years ago in these snakeskin print pants...too funny.

 

Chris, You can only attract good people into your life if you become a good person yourself. Mean people attract mean people.
Also, no matter how nice you become not everyone is going to like you. you're going to have to learn how to live with that. People talk about me quite a bit and it doesn't bother me because I am aware that I am a good person and have nice friends.
Right now you sound like you are being a 'tofu person', meaning you're soaking up all the negative energy around you and letting that be your personality instead of being strong enough to develop your own. Do you wanna be bland tofy, that's easily pliable or do you want to be a rich piece or dark chocolate or maybe a stout...not everyone like dark chocolate or stout but all appreciatte it's richness and individuality-even if they won't drink it themselves.
I hope you get over your ailments and seek counseling.
Hugs

 

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You didn't have a good counsellor.

 

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