Biggest loser boy friend, or girl friend youv ever had!

Earthy Mama, that sounds terrible and made all my ex boyfriends look like angels. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I think it makes you appreciate the things you have now more than anything...

Green...you aren't even old enough to make any relationship "mistakes" or get into a relationship with a bad person...Just wait...everyone does.

 

I know, but I could start dating a 35 year old, then what?

 

then that would be illegal in most places, and a little creepy as well. I must say though, "those" relationships aren't always rushed, and the people you think are good can turn out bad.

But, it's all lessons and all worth it in the end, you come out stronger. Look at Earthymama, she's smart and strong and a wonderfull mommy with 2 beautiful sons.

 

You're right.

I still think I am capable of getting myself into a bad spot at any time though.

 

my love, I'm not saying this to be mean, but I thought so too once. Bad relationships are far easier to get into that one may think. The trick is knowing when to get out of them.

 

my worst boyfriend was...
umm.. can i pick all of the above??

haha

 

I find this extremely condescending.

 

What's condescending about that comment?

 

i think he meant that you can't say that she's not old old enough to have certain feelings or capacity for mistakes, anyone could go out and do something retarded, and jsut becasue she's 15 doesnt mean her relationships are any less valid or intense than yours. that's probably the meaning behind that... being a teenager isnt all tampons and giggles, you know.

 

Yeah, exactly.

 

Well durring sex my boyfriend almost always wanted a quicky we would only have sex with our pants off, and there was never any foreplay. It was hard for me to get wet without foreplay, so when I couldnt get wet hed get annoyed, and just screw me harder making it hurt for me. When we were done he would get something to eat or go and play video games instead of sitting and cuddleing with me. One time in particular right after sex he got on the computer and talked to his ex girlfriend, about "old times," so I left his house.

Another time after sex I was somewhat crying becuase I was overwhelmed with emotion. And he rolled his eyes and was like "your crying again?" That made me feel bad....

Of course that wasnt the first time he made me cry he would do it quite frequently when I said something stupid, or I told him something was bothering me he would make this real ugly face and start yelling at me, I was only trying to tell him how I felt...But it always ended up with me crying and him getting his way becuase he was bassicaly a spoiled brat.

He did it a lot of not so nice things we would go to concerts and he would tell me how to dress and basically made me sit bored with him when Id ussualy be dancing and having fun. When I would even look at another guy hed squeeze my waist and tell me to stop, but it was ok for him to make comments about other girls.

I really could just keep going on about this lol. There were certain times id get my hair cut are be wearing something and hed basically say he didnt like it and not even in a nice way. Also unlike him I am not really into playing sports and I am not entertained by going on group dates, I just liked to be alone with him, but he seemed to get bored of me... oh well.

And then there was the times he would tell me he didnt like the way I dressed and I needed to "mature" my clothing selection, and I needed a tan. When a tan girl would go by hed point and say "thats what Im talking about, youd look so hot with a tan."

He would also put down all my art work and tell me my poems were too depressing and that he didnt understand them. When he was sick I would kiss and cuddle him, but when I was slightly sick he wouldnt come near me.

He would say mean things about my friends, and tell me they were losers, and to get new ones, when his friends were a bunch of materialistic,egotistical fucks, but I never said anything...except once.

One time he asked me if I wanted to hang out with his friend and his girlfriend. I didnt really like them all they would do is talk about other people, and they acted weird around me. So I told him I felt funny around them, and I just wanted it to be us that day. And he started screaming at me, how I didnt like them becuase they werent "my people," and I needed to grow up(whatever the fuck that meant) , which was really quiet rediculous. I just dont like to be around people that have nothing better to do then make fun of other people, complain about their work, and lack of new clothes, thats petty and boring to me. So I just sat there and told him to take me home.

 

Being a teenage sucks.

 

Wow, that guy sounds really bad. He sounds like a control freak who doesn't care about anybody but himself.

 

This girl who went out with me just cause i was in a band. I met her at a party that my band played a gig at. She went to my highschool. I had got her number a week later at school. We talked on the phone a few days. I asked her if she'd be my girlfriend. She said yes. She never called me. I always called her and she was never home. I only saw her at school. I had stopped showing up to school when we were two weeks into our so-called relationship because my medication effected me to a point where I had a hard time getting up at a certaint time. It may sound weird, but my body needs to get atleast 10-16 hours of sleep or I can't function very well. One day when I made it to school her friend came up to me and said Deanna doesn't want to go out with you anymore. I really didn't care at the time because I felt the relationship was pointless. I was metioning to a friend of mine how pointless the relationship was because she was never fucking home. Then her best friend told me she was home she just never picked up the phone when you were calling. I asked why the fuck did she go out with me then. She said cause she wanted a boyfriend. She said something else, but it sounded really stupid to me. She was one of the last girls I went out with. I've been single for two years.

 

Earthy Mama, You Win!!! I'm sorry it took so long for you to dump this a..hole!!! But you came to your senses and you learned from it. Now , go on live your life to the fullest, You Deserve It!!! Peace Out!!!

 

one of my exes is my best mate but one once told me that he couldn't wait to get back to college (it was during the hols) cos their were so many ppl there he wanted to kill. he then started telling me how he wanted to see the fear in the eyes as he strangled them!