my bfs very worried about getting me pregnant. we used to use spermicide for a short while but he had a mini allergic reaction to it so we switched to the female condom.... my ex. not so much...i think we went from just condoms to just birth control. if it were up to me. i trust the birth control alone based on being responsible and taking the pill on time etc. though i was sick one time and threw one up and didnt take two the next day, which sucked cuz then i had to wait til my next package of pills to have sex again. x_x