Well....I've been the meth addicted boyfriend before. The first thing I will say about it is that meth is the only drug I ever tried once and was high on it for the next 6 months, I think its more addicting then opiate, I was an Opiate addict too, but the stimulants (especially meth) deplete serotonin and dopamine so rapidly that without it he feels seriously depressed. I would say the best thing to do is sit down and talk to him, and prove a very stong point about it being an issue. Meth had me like totally delerious...you don't realize how bad it is until its too late. Stick by him as long as you can stand, and tell him he need to get off the shit for him, not even for you, because he's going to have to want it to get clean. %1 of recovering meth addicts make it 12 months clean, .5% of that 1 make it 24 months.
Leave his ass, as a former user, it's the best thing you can do, if he don't wanna go to rehab, he ain't gonna go and he'll probably get violent. Continued usage of the drug will destroy his personality into something that only has a few shreds of his old self. Luckily, I was forced into rehab,for doing something retarded that landed me a year stint in lockup, so I had no other choice than to put it down. Since then, I haven't touched the shit, knowing if i did i'd probably end up back to square one. Trust me, the best thing you can do to people using meth, is get the hell away from them, tell him he either quits and rehabs himself, or you're leaving his ass. That's what I would do anyways, just based on what I went through with that crap.
Meth has gotta be one of the worst drugs you can ever use. Yes it can make you feel like you are on top of the world, for a short while. What goes up must come down. I just broke up with a girl that was a tweeker. She was one of the coolest girls I ever met at first, but slowly but surely the real deal showed up later. She would freak out on me for no reason. The problem is, you have no control over your emotions if you are into a drug like that. You take everything way too far. Someone who is truely addicted cannot see past themselves, thats the problem, it makes YOU the center of the universe, and all who oppose you need to be attacked. She would argue with me on an level that was like a high schooler and talking all sorts of stupid shit and it woudl be over something that was totally insignificant or not even true in the first place. I started calling her random mad girl because I never knew when or what she was going to freak out about. I recently tried to give her another chance, she seemed to be trying to stay clean and getting back in school. But it was all bullshit, after a couple days I could tell right away she was getting all spun out and then sleeping for days on end. And she totally denied using!! The final straw was today, well actually the last couple. I tried to help her, I fixed her car for her(she cannot seem to do anything for herself). She just didn't give a shit about the fact that I had helped her, out of the goodness of my heart and had the nerve to accuse me of being manipulative. We then got into a total text war, I told her she needed to go to rehab or someone needed to do an intervention, for her own and her familys good(3 kids by the way). She proceeded to verbally attack me, admit to fucking her ex boyfriend a few days prior(just to piss me off), then on top of that she says stop textin me, then 2 minutes later sends 3-4 of them, and I reply then she cliams to have called the cops and filed harrassment charges and then claims that she has not sent one text.(my inbox shows more than 32 texts within a four hour window) The problem is, she says she wants to quit one day, but then is on it again the next. She has somehow managed to hide it from most people, even though I cant understand how anyone can not tell she is totally nuts. Totally and utterly unpredictable. The poor girl is probably going to lose her kids if she keeps it up, she already has alienated a lot of her family. Meth is bad, it takes good people and turns them into totally untrustworthy people that will screw over anyone and anyone, and become totally narcassistic. As much as I wanted to be able to help her, I just couldn't do it. She needs inpatient treatment, for her own good, and her familys good too. But I know if someone is that far in, its tough to get them out.. I have personally went through it myself, I was a lucky one and I got my life straightened out. Its a very sad sad thing, it hurts me to see someone destroying themselves, but what can ya do? There is no place in this world for that drug, NOTHING good can ever come from it.
fuck i dont think meth is the reason for that dudes problems his girlfriend just sounds like a real bitch