boyfriends porn

OP: You must be a really insecure, jealous bitch as a girlfriend. So big deal, he looks at porn. Most guys do. If if is going to be that big of an issue with you, find a born again Christian boy who has the same mentality regarding porn as yourself and go fuck him. Sounds to me like your man is a million times better off without your nagging and selfish ass around.

IronGoth: Those posts were hilarious! LOL. Made a TON of good, valid points too, but in a very funny way!

KC: *shakes head* OMG....

 

Get rid of your boyfriend and find some free porn. who knows you might like it!

 

The issue's not about porn or lack thereof.

It's that she feels that everything in his life should revolve around her.

 

Try watching porn on mute and put in your favorite cd. Make sure to only listen to the same cd everytime you jerk off. Pretty soon you will be conditioned to get an instant hard on merely from listening to your cd. Cool huh?

 

it's just as wrong to expect her to change something that is fundamentally important to her to suit him. better off they seperate.

 

Well, yeah. She should, well... dunno who she should be with.. but he should find a girl like you.

 

iron_goth is of the belief that every woman in the entire world is out to castrate him and eat his manly bits for breakfast. i get tired of the same old refrain.

 

Not so kc.

 

agreed.

 

you make me crazy, man.

 

I signed up for "how to drive a woman wild" but I think I got the wrong class....

 

flol. i think maybe so.

 

cool.

 

could be it's not so much he objected to you not liking his porn; could be that he's got issues with being told what to do.

I'm about the same, you can suggest something else, or tell me how you feel about it, but straight up "Get rid of it. It's me or it." You'll lose everytime, on principle.

Just telling him what to do, you're challenging him, not changing him. You won't win.

/that and...seriously....what's wrong with him havin porn? maybe he looks at that and thinks about you

 

Whatever the reason for him having porn is, I can tell you this. Most of the time porn is absolutely harmless. Most of the time all it is used for is something to look at to speed up the masturbation process.

As sexual beings women and men are complete opposites for the most part.

Most women, as mental sexual creatures, get aroused in some way by romantics and sappy love stories (generalizing).

Men are visual sexual creatures for the most part. Meaning that they will fantasize much easier if they have a visual aid. This is where porn comes into play.

If you are uncomfortable with him having porn, sit down with him and have a civilized discussion with him about it instead of overreacting then you will actually get somewhere.

Is this relationship a waste? No I do not think so. Many girls/women overreact about the porn issue instead of actually discussing the situation like a rational human being. Just have a talk with your boy and make sure that you come to terms and a compromise with him on anything you have an issue about. Remember that communication is the key to relationships, not whether you are completely compatable on every single character trait.

My girlfriend and I are nowhere near completely compatable on every issue. We ARE compatable on the most important issue of all, communication. Neither of us has any qualms with telling the other person what we think, though we do so in a civilized manner. We make compromises where we are both happy with the situations and we couldn't have a happier life.

I suggest that you sit down with your guy and talk to him. Talk to him about the things that bug BOTH of you. Get ready, you are going to hear some things about you that he doesn't like. That's good news, just as long as you two can talk rationally you will be fine.

Just don't worry about porn, the two of you can share it, it is harmless. If you really don't like it, well just remember that he might. How would you like it if someone asked you to give up something you liked? And don't even start with the "it's not the same thing" business that everyone likes to use as an excuse.

Good luck.

-Litos

 

tell me are you fucking high