I still love my ex too. I am pretty sure he had feelings for me we seemed to make eachother happy. Well he made me happy at least. So I dont know what I did to make him so unhappy that he ends it all and dosent contact me. He has my CDs how do I get them back? I have called him 2 times and he wont answer. I will not call him anymore. He told me with his past relationships he lets things build up until out of the blue he breaks up with the girl and I dont think they ever talk again. I dont want that. He talked about his ex's more often than needed. So I think maybe he never got proper closure and he still has some type of attachment to them. I was his first girlfriend in four years. He is 25! So I am kind of thinking he is handling this quite immaturley. Once we talk we never have to see or speak to eachother again if he desires.
I assume that the intensity of your relationship was also just as expressive? If he's been intimate and honest up to this point, then I suspect his weakness is that he hasn't the conviction to stick to his decisions when they get questioned by those affected by them. So, yes, it makes him an asshole.. It's totally unforgivable of him not to offer something by way of explanation. If you'd asked him to reconsider hard enough, he'd have changed his mind. But I suspect you'd never get the reason he wanted to leave.
