^ good luck. most people here will flame the shit outta you for being so disrespectful. as if lying and smoking behind your parents back is somehow the more honorable choice of the two.... but yeah, dont be mad about it. be RESPECTFUL. thats the key. listen to what they have to say, then respectful state where your coming from.... it doesnt always have to be "FUCK YOU IMA DO WHAT I WANT!" your parents will listen this way, and try to see your side of the argument; so long as you've politely heard out theirs. if you can show you can act like an adult about it, and that weed isnt turning you into some horrible irresponsible person, you've already got a head start. remember; you act like a jackass, thats just one more thing your parents will blame on the weed. keep us updated. best wishes man
well wow lots to tell umm my parents called the cops haha they found seeds which I guess in this state means pocession and surgar which they think is meth right now so im getting probation for 3 months for 4 seeds, can yah believe that! The douche bag cop said I might be looking at time too... but thats shit. and before this I got caught sneaking out going to a party so im grounded from everything nearly now... but I'll continue what happened here later
im also in the same boat, except one day i lost my visine, and i didnt realize untill 830 when i smoked a few bowls, and had to be home at 9, so i had to go home high (which my parents do not except) and my dad told me when i get my license if i fail a drugtest he will take it away untill i move out. idk what to doo =[. i am athletic, i have good grades, in honors classes, have quite a few close friends, have had a girlfriend for 2 years now, been working since i was 14, so overall i am responsible in my useage and my priorities are straight. But they are just so against it. i think my mom would accept it a little more than my dad because she understands, but my dad.. as an ex-newyork cop. Big no on his side. He is absolutly against it. and i have stopped for a week now, accually i smoked on saterday which i regret because i broke my promise to myself, but i have already realized i cannot concentrate as much in school.
well when you live with mom and dad you have to go by their rules.............when your on your own you can do what you want
well im moving out, after this is done. and I've got to talk to my lawyer here soon I guess having 7 seeds and a picture of trazadone on your computer(I took a picture of the pills to figure out what they were but they think im some pill addict now) is equal to jail time and there threatening me w/ kicking me out of school for a year which is bs. And lol... they found surgar in my room and arrested me on the spot for meth pocession (it was alot of surgar) and they tested it and after 3 hours of being yelled at by a cop and my parents I was let out. Reason I had surgar was so my joints would stick together better, I usually just used the plain sheets in a dictionary... those dont stick real well. ANywho, anyone know whats the worse they can do to me? Right now there trying to scare me but im curious now. 1st they said probabtion and now there telling me all this other shit. Really there isnt that much they have on me, I just thought the cop would lecture me and shit but he really wants to make me "see what happens when you mess w/ drugs" and make me regret it, im quite pissed. Anywho I've decided to quit untill this clears over and im outa here.
Just read the crime section of the local paper and see what people are getting for their first offense--probably a fine and probation, that seems pretty typical. You can also try for pre-trial diversion--basically you're put on probation and if you complete it successfully, your record is expunged. But if you get busted for something else during that time, you have to do the time for both crimes.
Hmm I'll look into this pre-trial diversion. My main issue tho is going to be moving out and being able to live I think. I think it costs $400 a month for a cheap 1bd apartment + other shit so probably round $600 a month im guessin but yah know, somethin a little nicer would be nice. that leaves me like$500 less or more to live off of a month... which doesnt seem like a whole lot since I'll have to buy furnish, food,party favors,a car eventually +gas then.. looks like cosco and garage sales will be my best friends till im outta college haha and maybe a bike lmao.
