Butter's Girl Issues...Again

Eh, thanks, but... blah. You're very nice.

 

haha I mean it silly. If I didn't I wouldn't have said anything.

 

Well, thank you, but let it be known to all that my sig picture is not me! Since I put Syd in my sig, about six people have gone out of their ways to ask me if that was a photo of myself.

 

well, most importantly, you're still a sweetie. and that always shows.

 

hey, i saw your pics in your gallery, and i think you are a cutie

 

yeah butters get on it. get her alone as the sun goes down and say something like "i hafta tell you something. i'm afraid you wont want to spend time with me anymore now that your roomates here..(she may say something like no dont worry, but press on with) the reason im afraid is because.. i'm really into you..(she may say "oh" and be uncomfortable -bad response, or she may ask for clarification like "well, what do you mean") where you say "well, I like you, you know?" and if she smiles and seems happy and there ends up being a pregnant silence between you two, make sure your standing close enough to lean in and kiss her. SLOWLY! you dont want her to think your going to break her nose with your forehead! then go from there. hopefully she wants to kiss you too (i think she will), and if you dont end up in the bushes, walk her home and maybe hold her hand on the way. but dont go on and on like " i'm so glad you like me blah blah ", just enjoy the moment you lucky bastard.

scary as hell i know, but like someone previous to me said, making yourself do scary things is the best way to grow.

wear deodorant - your going to be sweating like mad! and brush your goddamn teeth!

its all in the kiss. if she wants to kiss you, youre golden - if she doesnt, well then she doesnt want to kiss you - which tells you everything you need to know.

theres a hundred ways this could go, but theres a few possibilities. good luck man, just force yourself to relax and be calm.

 

Sounds like a plan, wideeyed. Yea, that would be scary as all hell for me, but I'm just going to have to do it. I've let too many get away, and I'm not letting this one, if I can help it. Thanks for the input. By the way, I'm cute, too!

 

Yeah, that's definitely the spirit!

Hahaha, right on!

 

Heh, well thank you, but this is Butters' thread. Let's not destroy it with talk of myself.

 

Ah, no problem Lucifer. If I had a decent picture of myself, everyone would forget about you! Ah, I'm just kidding man. Well, I think tomorrow will be my big day, so I'll see how much courage I can build up, and how well I can do this. I have faith in myself, so I think I'll do alright! I'll let you know if anything happens!

 

Yeah man, you will do great!

Yes, please do!

 

yay! go for it butters, i'm rooting for you and i didn't mean to push the topic onto lucifersam, my bad... i'm sure you are very cute too, just no pics


anyway, good luck!

 

Click on that little button below my sig that says "Gallery." My photos are in there.

 

oh i've seen yours babe, *wink* i was talking about butters... no pics in his gallery

 

Oh... BWAHAHA! I love misunderstandings!

Anyway, don't forget to update us tomorrow, Butters!

 

Awww that's all so sweet. If she's the sweet kind of girl, sounds like she'll be into you too.
But warning.... chicks never EVER make sense. At all.

 

Well, I think things may just be back on track! She called me today, and appologized for not talking to me for a while. She said that she wants to come to my room tonight and watch a movie or something with me. I think things may be looking up, guys! I think tonight is when I'll say something. Nothing extreme, but just to kind of let her know how I feel. I hope this works out!

 

Well, it sounds awesome man, but don't beat around the bush too much. Let her know how you feel; don't keep her guessing. I really hope things work for ya this time!

 

Oh man, all these people getting their hopes up, and I always have to let them down...*sigh*. She claims she still had too much homework to do, therefore is not coming. I really don't know what she is doing. She seems to like me, then when it comes time to do something with me, backs out. I just don't think there is any way for her to have that much freaking homework, because that excuse has already been used this weekend...What is she doing, does anyone have a clue? Because I sure don't, and its driving me nuts because I really want to tell her...but I can't! Ugghh Why can't something just work for me! What the heck am I doing wrong?!

 

what you CAN"T do is keep letting yourself get blown off like that. She's owning you, your thoughts, your schedule. Take some control, go somewhere to get your mind off of it. Whatever you do..DO NOT keep calling her incessantly......like I've said before, do not be too available. The best thing would be either get some other things to do, or get the ILLUSION that you have other things to do.