If they are both hot, it's way easier for them to be just friends. If only one is hot, then there's more chance of awkward tensions and power struggles in the relationship. Plus, both could bag other people with ease... Not a thought out question. And somehow, the straighter the woman, the more true this is.
I just don`t understand why they HAVE to be "hot"? Anyway, I believe everyone has beauty.. so who cares?
Yeah, I mean, when going out on the town for a night women always dress for the other women. A guy might think "she's hot, I'd hit that slut" but the girl makes the statement to all other girls with what's she's wearing. On the flip side of this no one cares what a guy wears. Jeans and a tight pink shirt - metro lamos. Male footwear is uninteresting. Shirts are always of a university they didn't go to with a random number printed on. The bothersome theme are the baggy jeans that hang down to a guys ass.. And they waste money on a belt that isn't doing its job. I've never looked at a guy and thought - interesting choice of clothes. I look at a girl in an outfit and I kinda wanna know more.
Oh my God, you are so ridiculous I don't know whether to think it is funny or just feel sad for you that this is the kind of world you imagine for yourself. And yes, I think attractive men and women can be friends, I really don't see why they wouldn't be able to.
I must not be a real woman then because I don't dress to impress other women. And I do pay attention to what men are wearing and I like it when men show a little personality in their choice of clothing.
You're pretty wrong about that one; at least, that's not the case over here. A large number of women judge a man first by his shoes (according to surveys). And what a man wears can completely affect which women are attracted to him; just by signaling "what type of guy he is", whether it's which subculture he adheres to, or how much he makes. Those baggy pants for instance often signal that he's into hip-hop and/or skater/surfer and/or thug culture.
Perfect example of what women deem a friendship. Don`t underestimate that it`s exactly the same with guys. I`ve never known a guy who cared about how women dressed ever. For one, woman wear is so pathetically impractical and contrived as to make one blush. The only useful information one may gather from female wear is how much of a cocktease or slut the girl is, and how much respect to lose for her. Likewise, guys know that what matters is that they dress expensive/statusy. Women respond to money/status, not aesthetic sense. The more interesting a man is, the less pussy he`ll get. Though, he may get a lot of clingy fatties/uggos throwing themselves at him.
Ridiculous. How a woman dresses says EVERYTHING about her. You can tell almost every aspect of a girl's personality (on that day, let's face it, our moods really affect our personalities) by their outfit. Me, I want to date a nice casual chick, with a sense of humor, a little bit of attitude, and not-too-mainstream. My girl wears Ts and jeans, with bright colored eyeliner and Ts with cute characters, but most of those Ts have dark base colors or edgy styling, and a lot of them are local bands or pretty unique looking.
You're posting my exact thoughts again Duck. So instead of ridicilous I say ludicrous LUDICROUS to project this personal view about outfits of the opposite gender does not matter on attractiveness on everybody while it's clear with a bit of observation that lots of peeps are attracted to each other partly because of how they're 'styling' themselves. 'Hot' is really connected to how a person wants to be perceived as well.