Can I Get An Honest Answer Ladies?

^ yep, that's called the friend zone. it happens to a lot of perfectly healthy people too.

 

honest answer
physical health and appearance are worthless in evaluating who you should care for
Be care free
be free with your care
don't care more or less
that makes you careless

 

then you wouldn't be honest about your condition but settle for crumbs of tasty water
drink the whole chalice of your own experience

joy to you

 

Yeah I know the friend zone, I have been trying to avoid it, its hard tho because I like to get to know the girl a little bit before I ask her out.

 

Speak for yourself! I'm going to be a stud when I'm 60 and...if I were single I would fuck a 60 yr old woman if she had a decent body. Why not?

And to the OP....dude...that's rough. Maybe you're being a little too nice of a guy and not making the move quick enough. I hate to be crass but you're 25.....stop worrying about getting to know her and start worrying about getting your cock in her. I'm not saying to be disrespectful or pushy but something you are doing is getting you to the friend-zone. Change that. Hell....if you have female friends.....ask them what they think.

 

You know the main reason is you dont look like their dad yet, you'll see eventually, its fuckin weird, and it is almost every single one of them

 

Am I correct? Misterman, you have CP?

 

female friends always give terrible dating advice though.

 

Dear Misterman, You NEED to spend some time with a professional prostitute. This can be done legally in Nevada and many countries in Europe. You NEED to use some caution. Only go to a reputable whorehouse. Do NOT fall for all the phony ads out there. Also, always use a rubber when screwing prostitutes. A good [ don`t fall for sucker ads ] prostitute will get you through this problem. There are professional " SEX THERAPISTS " out there. You need to find a woman who can at least care somewhat about you. Gee whiz, you are way too young to give up on sex. If I was your father I would find a good attractive prostitute for you and pay for it. If you are an attractive young man there is NO reason you should not be having some sort of a sex life with women. Why do you think women hate you ? That makes no sense to me. ...Oscar

 

How old are you Wizard...? I also thought I would remain attractive for ever. And did so until about 55 or so. Also, I have no problem getting a hard on, but no woman I am attracted to cares. You will find out what I am talking about someday. Probably sooner than you think.

The same goes for women except faster. Once they hit 50 or so there are few I consider worth screwing. That is the way life is in case you did not notice. ...O

 

I know almost exactly what I will look like at 60 because I know what my dad looked like and I look exactly like him. In fact, you could compare pics of us at the same age at different times in our lives and we're almost twins. All of my uncles also look remarkably like my dad. And I notice plenty of women who look over 50 that I would probably knock the boots with if I was single.

 

pretty darn exact that almost exactly. hope you see better as you grow older

 

Exactly!

 

yes I have CP. I'm good on the prostitute thing I have my pride still you know

 

I have a cousin with C.P. who met her husband at some sort of C. P. event or place; it's been so long ago that I forget.

They've been married for years and they are so happy. They even adopted two beautiful children.

People with similar conditions can be more compassionate sometimes.

 

Misterman, I think I found the issue. If girls tell you they love you but you 'aren't the guy for them' that basically means you're way nice, in a friendly way. Like you said, you like to get to know a girl first before asking them out.

That is actually your issue. Women mentally file you in the 'friend' category because you don't show romantic interest towards them. Your best bet would be to throw away your 'getting to know them first'. Idk about you, but I can generally tell the character of someone in a few minutes of conversation. Go up to some random, nice looking girl in the daylight hours, and show some ROMANTIC interest, physically escalate with some subtle touches on their arm. Make it CLEAR you're not just looking to be friends, then get their number and set up a date. You can learn all about them on the date

Once you get filed in the 'friend' category, it's really hard to get out, so don't let yourself get put in there, by showing ROMANTIC interest from the very start. First impressions are everything.

 

Thanks Aussie that was some good advice.

 

My uncle married an amazing woman with CP, who was also a quadriplegic in a wheel chair. Why did he marry her? Because she has one of the most amazing, and inspiring, personalities one could hope to meet. She would laugh, and tell people the only reason she married him was because she couldn't tie her shoes. She was a phenomenal woman, she wrote and published a romance novel, she wrote and directed a movie, she painted using a brush held in her teeth, and so much more. She did more as what many label as a 'severely disabled person' than most able-bodied people I know are even willing to try to accomplish. She is not what most would consider physically beautiful, but her energy, her love of life, her personality, and her refusal to accept her limitations make her the most beautiful person I have ever known.

Attraction goes so much deeper than physical appearance if someone is looking for more than sex, and wants a meaningful connection with you. When someone is truly interested in you they will see your heart, your soul, and who you are beneath the physical shell. If they are so shallow and cannot take the time to get to know who you really are, then they have saved you the time and trouble of wasting your time on them. JMO

 

Just going to leave this here, the fastest, best workout ever to get in damn decent shape. If you don't have a pullup bar just do the pushups and floor touches.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvhgnLQPNRY

Start with

[SIZE=13.63636302948px]10 pullups 20 pushups 40 floor touches then[/SIZE]
[SIZE=13.63636302948px]12 pullups 24 pushups 48 floor touches then[/SIZE]
[SIZE=13.63636302948px]14 pullups 28 pushups 56 floor touches then[/SIZE]
[SIZE=13.63636302948px]16 pullups 32 pushups 64 floor touches then[/SIZE]
[SIZE=13.63636302948px]18 pullups 36 pushups 72 floor touches then reset, only you'll get to 10-20-40 faster each time you reset.[/SIZE]

 

fuck you people..I'll say it...

Stop being so nice to these girls and BE A DICK.
Nothing gets you out of the dreaded "friendzone" faster!

Women almost always go for the asshole.
I don't mean smack em around or call em names....but..
Just be a little overconfident and dont try so hard to kiss their ass.

I dare a woman here to deny that they go for the overconfident dickhead...and dont completely overlook and friendzone the "nice guy"