Children.

I can't wait to be a mum Lately I've been dreaming a lot about having a baby.. My fiance and I were talking about it just last night, and how we want to start a family soon. Once I'm done with uni then it's baby time!! Haha..

 

I've had dreams about having a kid, too. They creep me out.

 

Well, thank you

 

yeah deviate, confidence is one of those things you have to fake until you feel. I don't know if I'll ever fully feel it though, or will be forever faking it.

maybe everyone fakes it, to be honest

 

I think it basically ebbs and flows like the tides.
At different points in life, everyone will feel confident and not confident.

The majority of people probably do fake it, and sometimes its extremely easy to tell. When people just radiate insecurities.
But yeah, you really can condition your mind to feel a certain way by consciously rejecting certain thought patterns.

 

Youre 18. Most guys at that age run away screaming at the sheer mention of the word baby.

 

i really wouldn't say its faking it in a literal sense...you either are confident or you are not confident. you have to consciously choose that mindset

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7j2DHUw8SZg

I could not resist. :leaving:

 

You know, that doesn't check out in my circle of friends and acquaintances. I ask most people I know if they wanna have kids some day and so far I have gotten 4 negative answers, two guys and two girls have said they don't. All the rest say they do, guys and girls alike and I've asked a lot of people.

 

creepy to open this thread today, since last night, my husband was asking me if i wanted to have another baby. i have one boy and he has one girl, then we got married years later, so we have 2 kids, but we dont have a child together.

 

I am going to adopt about 12 kids and have my own army that shall do my bidding... It will be the hip new cult that is all the rave.. They will recruit new members...We will rise and take over the world..!

Anywho... Negative on the children, I can't, that's just a fact of life...Though who knows.. Anyways, if I wanted a baby I bet I could go find one in the gutter or on the street corner...
I like other people's kids because you don't have to take them home, you get to hang with them and then give them back...

 

Yeah thats what I was trying to say, faking it in the sense that you choose to think that way even if you dont feel it. Then you will begin to feel it.

Emotions follow actions.

 

like angelina jolie! slowwwwwly....

 

haha, i didn't even see your post before i posted mine

good stuff

 

Well when I was 18, I used to dream about having a family but realistically would have run from the idea. Then I went through a phase where I would never get married or have kids. Then it became something I wanted again, but could actually handle.

I think most people will reply yes to wanting kids someday, just like they would with other societal norms. Most people will say they'll go to college or get a job, even if they dont neccesarily want to.

 

:cheers2:

 

Hell no. I hate being responsible for anyone besides myself. I like kids, but fuck the responsibility. Same with pets.

 

My dog is my nigga

 

Yeah, I have a problem with responsibility, too. I get bored with most new things real easily and I can't imagine taking care of a kid for 18 years.

 

You're only 17, you'll change.