19 (and a half :toetap05 I have a sister who is 24, and people think that I'm older and she's younger
That I was locked away in a maximum state penitentiary for a crime I did not commit. Oh , hang on , no , that was the A Team. ( shakes head) Actually people do make misconceptions about me.But I also try and be private about what I am /not about.But sometimes , people astonish me ,with ridiculous notions.
loud people certainly seem to think so. i commonly get mistaken for a stupid straightedge pussy with no physical strength. also that i'm gay, but i think that's just from my parents right now.
Apparently if you're not blabbering all the time, you're dumb and have nothing to say. If you add a smile to that, it's because you dont understand what other people are saying. Nobody has ever said that to me, but I think it's what they assume. The only time anyone ever said to my face that I was dumb, was back when I was studying law in DR. We had this final and we were sitting on the hallway. I was reading my book and a friend (who wasnt in class with us) asked me to explain something to him, so I was explaining to him what it meant and there was this guy, who I knew from partying and drug excesses, who was in SHOCK and said "You're asking Ili to explain something to you?!?". I was like "what the?". And I passed that class with an A and our grades were accumulated from 2 or 3 tests. No homework, no essays, no anything else. My GPA was 3.7 and I was studying something that I didnt even like. That's one assumption I hate that people always have. Not about me, but about people in school in general.
people perceive me as straight (which i totally don't see, but whatever). they also perceive me as being snobby, when i'm really just shy.
I think a lot of people mistake being quiet/standoffish, or just plain shy, as being a snob and thinking you're better. (atleast for girls)
i think that happens to a lot of people. they're shy, so they have a hard time talking to people, and that's what makes them seem snobby.
I think that people are more likely to perceive shyness that way when the shy person in question is a hot mama like you.
also, people almost always mistake kindness for weakness. she's being nice... she must be stupid/always let people take advantage of her. she's being nice... she must be emotionally weak/long for acceptance.
people think i'm stupid because i'm bad with words. I can put ideas together in my head but have no idea how to express them with words sometimes. And I can comprehend some things but wont be able to explain it to you for the life of me.
when I'm up in the mountains skiing, people often think I'm a boy. my poofy coat doesn't really allow my womanly curves to show I guess. lol.