Concept of Virginity

A few years ago I was researching masturbation as it's a subject I've had a lifelong interest in (well since I was around 12 anyway ).

I came across some information about African mothers in the past, and how they would deliberately break their daughter's hymen while they were babies, and then finger them on a regular basis in order to stretch the girl's vagina, so that when she was older and had sex for the first time with a boy, it wouldn't hurt either her or the boy. The concept of virginity had no value whatsoever to these people, so instead they did what they did for practical reasons. The mothers would also keep stretching the girls inner labia, so that when the girl had sex, she could wrap her labia around her lover's shaft as he was fucking her.

Also, these same African mothers would pull the foreskin back on their baby sons and also suck them off to orgasm on a regular basis to make sure they could get an erection and an orgasm.

This meant both the boys and the girls grew up ready for sex, and no-one suffered any pain when they first had a sexual encounter.


I personally think there's some merit in these practices, and wish that we weren't so hung up about sexual things, but of course the way our society has developed, the nuclear family has needed to include a steady loving relationship between the father and mother of the children in order to spare the state from having to support them. In tribal Africa, that wasn't the case. Instead, girls grew up and started having babies, while the boys grew up and went out hunting or herding with the men. There was an extended family relationship to the tribe, and whatever the men brought back to the village, everyone shared in, so this miniature version of the state did support everyone within it.

 

Well, I vividly remember my first time , though it was64 years ago. I have no recollection of my second time. So, yea, its real thing to me