Or a committed, long term monogamous relationship (both tested before unprotected intercourse) combined with the birth control pill! I hate 'em. So I quit having casual sex, waited to find a man who is a keeper, and who I can trust with my life!
Of course it feels better without one, but at the sametime, I'm not ready to be a poppa yet, so I'm not all about having the unprotected sex. My girlfriend was on the pill for awhile, but she didn't like the way it made her feel, so we agreed to just use condoms. We've slipped and had unprotected sex once in awhile, but generally I'll finish on her chest or in her mouth. I don't want any lil' goo ninjas running around. Mmhmm, Ganja_Goo
i think im allergic to latex or something because when we did use em my skin always got flakey. and my mom is allergic to latex and has the same reaction, so its pretty plausible that that's what was going on. but me and my guy have only been with each other, engaged, etc. so im on the pill now so its awesome. we had problems with the condoms because of my allergic reaction and we never found the right size i guess because even the extra large in the store was really tight on him where it was even hard for him to keep hard. also it was so annoying to have to hassle witht he condom when we wanted to just pounce each other and go at it. but of course if you're not in a monogamous relationship of course condoms are a must, but i have to admit im super glad i never had to deal with that because we only had to use condoms during that month having to wait for the pills to go into affect (that month you have to wait right after you start) and that was long enough.
Luckily for those who are latex sensitive and who are not in a monogamous relationship, polyurethane condoms are getting easier to find. Even trojan has a non-latex variety that they sell at the walmart near where I live!
its not a tragedy to use one. you don't feel as much with one, but you usually last longer, and if you get the flavored kind, your room smells like a pack of wild cherry lifesavers melted in there. not to mention if you cum in one, you just take it off and throw it away, rather than having to get a towel or wait for it all to 'come back out.' i'd usually rather not use one, cuz my g/f is on the pill, but i definitely wouldn't say i hate them.
I'm hoping you are being sarcastic in the sense that you don't use them.. I've known what a condom was since I was 8.
Here's my situation. Being a virgin but having done quite many things other than the actual intercourse, I am no stranger to condoms. I would often wear one before my ex-girlfriend would give me an orgasm manually to avoid the mess. During dry-humping, if we chose to get off by doing this, I would put one on as well, again, to minimize the mess. The thing is, I really didn't mind using them. And if I met a nice girl now and started a new relationship with her, I'd still be more than happy to wear a condom. The way I see it, having an intimate relationship with someone is an honour. If condoms reduce certain risks such as unwanted pregnancy and STDs, using them is the least I can do to pay respect for my partner's intimate offering. Besides, I can still get off with one on, so I see no problem there... But that's just me.