Counselor screwed me

See if you can find someone, maybe a Lesbian who uses an approach called DBT, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy...Ask your "cutting Counselor" about it.

 

I wish my lawn was emo, then it would cut itself.

Sorry, I had too, its my favourite emo joke

I was going to say might be a good thing if he seeks out some of the gay girls in his social circles too. In the rush to find identity or worrying about the popularity contest that is college, one might think you wouldnt really have anything to do with them, or anything in common.

But they can put the tonic in platonic, you dont have to worry about a dumbass boyfriend, dont have to worry about them thinking you are going to steal their girlfriend, and they aint going to get bitchy like the straight girls if a guy pays more attention to you.

I'm talking about a specific type, not the scary hairy armpit vegan ones, but the ones that seem themselves as protector of girls.

Straight fag hag might be a good idea, but you never know at the start whether they just want you as like a fashion accessory - My besty is this messed up gay guy, how cool am I

 

this^

also, you want a fag hag that agrees with you 90% of the time. Not 100% or it will just be like talking at a brick wall that does nothing but say "yep, mhm, I agree"

 

I do have a good girl friend who's very helpful. I'm dealing. He sent me a text message today saying, "I just wanted to see if you're okay. I'm worried about you." In my mind, he doesn't have the right to say that. In my opinion, he sent this because it's a good way to try to get to me, to check in and see what's going on, and make sure I'm not reporting him, without providing me with any sort of evidence to back up my claims. Damn it.

 

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sorry my last message was incomplete..

It was suppose to say: "wtf am I reading today",--sumtin sumtin" but I got distracted..

wtf am I reading today about peoples in trust positions, destroying that trust?..

I guess this is true with any mentor, role model, counselor, preist, cop, parent, guardian..

sad realities.

 

yes, i think you are right about this fucking disgusting piece of shit bollocks councellor.... he is making sure you gonna say nothing! his job could be on the line and he wont be ale to take advantage of any other person... he should NOT be working in that position of trust.... ofcourse, it's up to you, but if it were me, i would report him.... what a douche-bag!!!! ooooodles of hugs going out to you!!!!!!!

 

troll

 

^^^ why you callin' him troll?

 

idk, the whole thing sounds like a lie. doesn't add up to me

 

I Wouldn't Go So Far As To Say Troll, But There Are Parts Of The Original Post

I Do Not Comprehend.

Why Did You Curl Up In Bed With Someone You Did Not Want To...??

If You Did Indeed Say NO And He Continued With His Advances, Why Did You

Not Just Walk Out The Door...??

Was The Door Locked, Were You Being Held Against Your Will.??

I'm Certainly Not Saying Your'e Lying, But I Am Having Trouble Wrapping My Head

Around The Fact That You Are 18 And Attending University, And When A

Small Issue Like This Pops Up, You Attempt To Cut Yourself.

There Is Indeed A Very Big Piece Missing From This Jigsaw Puzzle....



Cheers Glen.

 

i don't think you can call it a "small" issue Glen... (i mean, call it what you like but....) if he felt like cutting, it was to feel something... it is easy to take advantage of someone who has been sexually abused for most of his/her life... trust is no small issue! this douche bag councellor is in a position of trust and he abused it... BIG ISSUE!!!

 

but we are saying he isnt telling the /whole truth or parts of the story arnt explained

 

which parts? i don't get it....

 

well basically the last post you quoted

 

the op was abused as a child... i think this answers a lot of those questions...? maybe you and Glen didn't know that?

 

He doesnt have to be physically intimidated or like pinned down for it to mess with his head.

Just given his history, annorexia, just about every straight person being a jerk, having hardly any one like him around him, maybe only one or two GLBT type parental figures in the whole college or his life, turns to one of those for help and ends up trying to get his groove on, it would be like what the hell?

I'm guessing not so much what this guy did, what he didnt do - his job, the perhaps one and only guy currently that could understand our young OP

And it can be bad enough getting this kind of crap through younger years, and highschool from 'straight' guys and perhaps relatives, but then getting the same kind of thing from one of your own team, well thats even more friggin annoying

 

I didn't curl up in bed with anyone. He said that he was going to help me with my homework. When we got to his place on campus, he said that he wanted to work in his room. The desk was a mess, so he had me sit on his bed with him...yes, in retrospect, this was a bad situation. But I trusted him. I really did. He helped me get through hard times, and was an older figure that I needed in my life. And then he (re)fucked up my head by touching me. I had to grab my stuff and my jacket and get out of there...and it was all so fast, but not fast enough. And "small issue" nothing. It's beyond screwed up to do take advantage of someone like that.

 

I didnt say i hate yoiu...i said YOU ARE HURTING YOU TOO....listen..you did what you had to...you left...the guy is a douchebag...but not every one is a douchebag....you learned a lesson that you should have already known...


having said that...you must rat this asshole to the dean before he actually rapes a sophmore..

...if he does hurt someone else..you will be part responsible....


what he did was wrong


if you dont rat...you are also wrong in the same way

 

my brother's jail/drug counselor ended up having a relationship/child with him and not letting anyone know he is was criminal ............... then when he went back to jail she eventually pretty much made it seem like she did not have a 4 year relationship with him and does not let him talk to his son hehe


now what have we learned about counselors/doctors?

 

What we learned is that SOME people in those positions are bad. When you start with the overly broad generalizations you start driving in the wedge of fear that isolates people from each other. Not all counselors, doctors or other providers are molestors.