Counselor screwed me

i suspect from this response that you don't actually know what a boundary is...

 

I think he is either unaware of boundaries, or thinks that there should be none. lol

 

so it seems

 

sorry, i missed number 4..... i am bi-sexual, although i don't see what difference all this makes....

 

enlighten me then.

edit:
forget it
waste of time.
i know what a boundary is.

 

Ya know what I hate about these kind of responses?

They are so insubstantial. They are so weak and flimsy. It's the equivalent of saying 'No U!'.

I spend time thinking about this stuff, and come up with contentions, rebuttles, examples of why your logic is flawed.

and the best you can do is 1 line of ad-hominem bullshit that has NO substance.

The VERY least you could do is explain WHY you think I don't know what boundaries are..yet you fail to do even that.
You might as well just say 'You're wrong' and leave it that.

Go back to primary school where this kind of dialogue finds its home

 

Don't take what I'm about to say personally. A person in a position of power took advantage of your delicate transition from childhood to adulthood. This is not representative of most people.

You stuck by your principles at the last second, and that's a blessing. Sex should be empowering for both parties, and I'm sorry what he did to you. Nothing happened. You didn't let it. Good job.

 

It Makes A Lot Of Difference, Up Until Now You Knew Everything About Me,

My Real Name, My Country, My Town, And If You Were Really Paying Attention,

You Could Drive Right To My Front Door....

You On The Other Hand, Could Best Be Described As The Total Opposite.

Why...???



Cheers Glen.

 

There is no need, when your post clearly spoke for itself. If it looks, sounds, and acts like a duck, then it's a duck.

But if you really want to get down to it, you pretty much equated someone ASKING for a kiss to unwanted and inappropriate touching. That certainly looks to me like someone who has no concept of acceptable boundaries.

 

and you think that everyone, whose ever gotten married, started their relationship off so appropriately as to ask for kiss do you?

and the councilor didn't KNOW it wasn't wanted, unless LG told him. in which case it would have been un consential which is a different story

 

What The F**k.!!! This Guy Is 18 Going On 19, And Is A Student At A University..

We Are Not Talking About A 10 Year Old Boy Who Was "Fiddled With", We Are

Talking About A Legally Responsible Adult MAN...

For God's Sake Get Your Facts Straight Before You Post....



Cheers Glen.

 

correction.... a legally responsible adult who was abuse at 6 years old.... you seem to know nothing about the vulnerabilities of abused children who grow in to vulnerable adults...?

 

riddles will get you nowhere... i just don't understand what you are talking about here.... try to be direct perhaps.. it might help?

 

even if my life was completely and utterly destroyed by being abused, I still don't think I would bother enacting revenge.

why bring others down aswell

 

It's a waste of time with you. You haven't really addressed anything I have said

 

Can You Answer Me Please, Just How Far Into A Persons Life Can The

"I'VE BEEN MOLESTED CARD" Be Used...

I Spent 6 Years In Boarding School Enviroments, And Let Me Tell You, There

Were Sh**Loads Of Incidents I Could Bring Foward To This Day If I Really

Wanted To.

But Guess What, I Learned To Put The Past Behind Me, And Get On With My Life.

:sunny:..."A PERSON WHO LIVES IN THE PAST, HAS NO FUTURE"...:sunny:

Just My Personal Thoughts....



Cheers Glen.

 

i don't perceive LGs actions in reporting the perv, to be revenge... more like his duty...

 

your like a baby.
this is such schoolyard stuff.

 

maybe if you had brought them forward you wouldn't have such a warped idea of what is abusive behaviour and what is not? that is only my opinion ofcourse...

 

i was responding to Glen, sorry, did i miss a question you asked me specifically?