Counselor screwed me

^^^ note to self: do not employ Sam Stoned to look after the best interests of anyone who can't bite back...

 

no probs... i have been guilty of same before...

 

Oh Yes We Can, Right From The First Post This Thread "Stunk To High Hell".

Nothing Added Up, He Lied, And Then He Lied Again....

I Have Seen This Senario So Many Times In My Life, It's Just Not Funny.

The Only Person I Have Any Feelings For Is The Counsellor, Who Made The

Mistake Of Thinking He Was "Super Cute" .....*if in doubt check out his "modest" pics*.

If Placed In The Same Position, I Would Most Likely Place My Hand On His

**** As Well, Nope, Make That BOTH HANDS....


Can We All Go Home Now..??



Cheers Glen.

 

what proof have you that he lied?

 

note to self: include Glen on the "unsuitable to work with young vulnerable people" list

 

Dear Lord ,Please Give Me The Strength To Get Through This Day...:banghead:

If You Do, I Promise To Go To Church On Sunday...:angel:.

Signed, Your Most Devoted Follower.....GLEN.



Cheers Glen.

 

^^^ no proof then...

 

i don't want to stir up this thread again, but i would like to use this opportunity to add that our perception of whether the touching (or whatever happened here) was appropriate or inappropriate is not absolute. it has nothing to do with the counselor's age, or the fact that LG was abused as a child (if true). it is everything to do with the fact that it was non-consensual, and that the legal side is against the counselor.

i agree with whoever here said that people are people, you can dress them up as doctors and patients, teachers and students, counselors and their subjects, and tell them--you are not supposed to like one another, you're not supposed to look at the other the wrong way, you can't touch the other, etc---underneath they're still human beings. they react to one another, one of them might get attracted to the other, he might try a physical contact to see if it is reciprocated, it happens; and no-one is at fault here really. all this lecturing that it was inappropriate comes when one of the parties doesn't agree with it, the law is on his side, so he uses it. and all the self-righteous people in the world get behind the moral train to hang the offender. it has nothing to do with age, sex, sexuality, their professional relations, whatever. it has everything to do with whether it was consensual or not.

when i was in high school, there was a girl a year above me. she got involved with one of the teachers while she was still attending school (she was in the 12th grade). i don't know if she was 18 at the time or not it didn't matter. i also don't know whether the other teachers at the school knew about their relationship (if they didn't they had to have been blind), most students definitely did. i don't know if they're still together today, but they built a stable relationship for 5 years at least. when i was in high school at the time i didn't find anything inappropriate about their relationship and i still don't to this day, just as i don't find other such "professionally-frowned-upon" relationships inappropriate. they're people, they're human beings, and things happen.

and i'm also sure that if LurdGanaro had alternately liked his counselor back, and came here to tell us that he'd found a wonderful man who also happened to be his counselor, very few if any would have summoned the words "report him, what he did was wrong".

 

sorry, but i disagree with you entirely meridianwest... i would only feel compassion for the counsellor if he was, as yarapario suggested could be possible, an untrained/unprofessional student, in which case i would hold the college that put him in that position responsible...

 

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