Snerk. You know, you just wrote some serious erotica for a section of our dudes on here. Cuddling is connection. Without connection, sex is meaningless for me. I cuddle, I give walk by caresses, guerrilla hugs, secret contact points (a knee press when sitting near each other, a hand squeeze unseen). I speak in touch and keep the conversation going.
He did, actually. I had forgotten about that. He told me he was molested by a priest when he was younger.
I think everyone loves cuddling. But if the women/man isn't into sex at times during cuddling, it can be a major turn off in a relationship.
I believe that a cuddle given at the right moment..is a must... :bulb: it tells partners their heart is at home..and for me it belongs to the factor foreplay.. i LOVE to cuddle...and to be given a cuddle..I'm a teddy bear with a grey beard(ahah) :dizzy2: I cuddled a lot in my life..i'm addicted..