may be your husband dosent want to have sex because its all focusing on TTC, i'm not saying that he dosent want to have sex with you but more that its not as fun anymore. everyone likes to take risks, you have sex outside you risk getting caught & its a thrill. you have unprotected sex you risk getting pregnant & i supose thats a thrill in itself. maybe if you tell your husband that you want to wait a bit longer & just have the fun being the two of you then he'll not feel so presured in to having sex to concieve & you get it a bit more often, increasing the chance you'll get pregnant. try & put it out of your head too, dont think babys every time you have sex just think about the two of you conecting as one & being real close to each other. that way it will happen when your not really thinking about it & it'll be a real nice suprise. but still if you've done that & after 6-12months you still havent concieved then see your doctor.
I think torz has a good point. I mean, before you got married and started ttc, what was "the point" of having sex then? Didn't you do it for the sheer joy, for the pleasure of being so close to one another? If you are both in good health and have a healthy appetite for sex, a baby will happen. But if you are so preoccupied with babies that you can't even enjoy the sex for what it is, it's at least adding to your frustration and at most causing some confusion in your body. Relax, and it will happen!
even before we got married he wasnt a big fan of sex...he never really watched pornos like most guys do...hed only had sex 3 times with other girlfriends and he had 3 girlfriends b4 me!! hes never really been into sex, i have always been lucky to make love twice a month...its not anything new, and it really does rag on my self confidence
hun, it sounds like we are married to vary similar men... except my hubby doesnt want to concieve right now and i want to more than i want my next breath....i understand how hard this is for you cause I'm going through the same thing...and i hear the same things from every one... I wish you luck and i'm sending tons of baby dust your way! (((hugs))):baby:
awww thank u sis....glad to know someone is going through the same thing...you made me feel much better (((HuGz))) BrEe
Have you tried abstaining from caffine, also from alcohol (both of you if possible). And do either one of you smoke? Nicotine can affect fertility. Drink Red Raspberry leaf tea and start taking prenatal vitamins now even though you aren't preggers, the extra folic acid helps your fertility. H
