1)Pah that sounds like me all over >< 2) Nope, for me it's def the first one xD Anyway flowers, I'm glad it went well
Not necessarily, but in this case, yep. Objectification happens, and if anyone's comitting to anything, there better be a good relationship, good physical attraction, and good sex... Any less is settling, and won't go well in the long run. *edit* the traditional "you can't have sex unless you don't want sex" is fucking STUPID, and will mandate a short unhappy tensitension filled relationship. Just by the way. And there's NO reason to commit to very much right away, other than make someone feel like there's a high ratio of tied down to a low ratio of relationship, which will be the case....