Dating a dude that's prettier than you...

i wish i was included

and aura, i was agreeing with you on the boobs thing, nothing beats
i just like me pretty boys

 

I respect yours and the stupid boys, was only a joke, kinda.

 

I like pretty boys too

I know you were, I was just saying, that no matter how pretty, they dont have boobs, so we win.

 

I took that insult like a real man. So now I swallow and give you an e-hug, so all is fine again.

 

haha, ok.

I do like e-hugs.

 

come to think of it, I should change my name to neondot.

 

e-hugs do not satisfy my all-encompassing need.

 

It did used to piss me off!!! Big time. But he didn't like it when guys hit on me, so we sort just started finding it funny after awhile.

I think I do use cute too much, but I only use it when I mean it! It's just nice to see someone as beautiful as you are also being so down-to-earth and funny and sweet. And thinking your guy is prettier than you!

 

it just didn't work for me...

 

I'm glad I'm not alone.


I can appreciate a pretty boy, but I'm never attracted to their pretty faces. Like I said earlier I like rugged looking men. :cheers2:

 

i'm a pretty boy

 

:cheers2: to that... for sure....

 

^^^daamn right

 

That was probably me who mentioned love, and when I see a girl, no I don't think that either. However I never think that their looks are going to tell me whether or not I'd get along or even want to get along with the person either.

So, you wanted to get to know someone specifically because of their looks....not because you genuinely wanted to become familiar with their thoughts, perspectives, opinions, past etc....? I guess we just think differently then. No harm in that though, I'm not saying your thought process of interpreting who you want get to know and who you don't want to is a bad thing, it's just not really how I choose to look at it. (That's what makes humans so interesting)

Oh and I disagree with what you said about not wanting to get to know an "unattractive" person better. If I could I'd love to learn something about everyone I see, but it's impossible. Still, looks don't really play that big of a role in who I would like to know more about. Looks don't hurt a possible intimate relationship, it's just they aren't even close to the only thing I look at in determining who I let into my life in that way.

A man is a man, no matter his/her skin color, beliefs, hair color, nationality, etc....This is something I feel I cannot truly believe in if I allow for my sexual being to discriminate to that degree in terms of looks. However it is just my perspective and if another chooses not to look at it the same way, then I have no immediate problem with it unless they are in some way doing harm to another. (Perhaps not giving others a chance based solely off looks is unintentionally causing harm in some situations though)

PS. I'd consider myself rugged.....definetely not a pretty boy.

 

words are SO powerful...

thank you for your post, bthizle...

 

yes, i agree... looks should not be the ultimate deciding factor, but they definitely play a part. for example, i don't think i could be with an extremely overweight person because i know our lifestyles would be way too different. i love the way my boyfriend looks. some think he's cute, some incredibly sexy, some don't give a damn, but to me, he is the most gorgeous human being alive... that's what matters.... we are both fairly attractive, but we both have big noses and thick eyebrows, he has very short people in his family, i have extremely tall people in mine... so god knows what our poor kids will look like!

 

I agree with zilla about the overweight thing. I am not shallow by any means........ but I am not attracted to overweight guys simply because health is very important to me. I'm active, I eat well, and those are definitely qualities I would want in a boyfriend.

it's not so much a "shallow" thing, being healthy is just important in general I think.

 

nay, he should NEVER be prettier than you... it'll outshine you. lol.

 

My body is my temple, and I try to act accordingly. As far as we know we only get this one life, so not only is our mental make up but also our physical make up made that much more beautiful and intricate. I agree, someone that strives to be healthy, not one of those nuts that just wants to be skinny because it's "cool" (ie. most people that count calories) definetely grabs my attention, but only because I admire that and try to live my life the same way. It's just that there are many things other than just physical health that come in to play when the typical person says someone is either attractive or unattractive.

 

It’s disturbing when a guy is prettier than the girl he’s dating (or in this case) singing to

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