Dating Outside Of Your Race...Could You???

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Could You Date Someone Outside of your Race??

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  1. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    I see the same thing sometimes with my boyfriend and his brother. They are half chinese half indonesian, were born and raised in Surinam and now live in the Netherlands.. hard for them to find their roots.
     
  2. eleria

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    Ah, I am glad somebody said this.

    For me different races within the human species are an expression of the beautiful diversity of life.
    That the word race, when refering to humans is usually connected to negative feelings is understandable looking at our history, but imo something we should overcome.
    I don't like that "we are all the same" ideology at all. Not regarding male-female , nor regarding different races.
    We are all equal! But that is something completely different.
    I think it is great that people are different in their looks, their culture, their habits, language and so on and imo it would be a big loss if one day we would all be the same.

    Anyways, to answer the question of the topic: yes I could.

    :)
     
  3. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    Hell yeah...

    Too bad this is an issue for some people. They don't know what they could be missing. Some of those Mediterrean/Latin girls are hot as fire. *smoking...*
     
  4. Oz!

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    Would do, have, and may do again.....I don't seem to have a lot of concious choice about who I fall for..and wotever does make that decision don't seem to make race an issue :D
     
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    My first two bfs were Hispanic. I'm a redhead. so it was a mutual fetish ;)
    I've been with males of mixed ancestry and one full-blown European (who was actually European: English).
    Married now, but I have friends who I consider attractive from many backgrounds.
    Oh, i married outside my ethnic faith, too.
     
  6. MattInVegas

    MattInVegas John Denver Mega-Fan

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    I not only COULD, I HAVE.
     
  7. mant_its

    mant_its Banned

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    Not as long as she met the criteria of a super model.
     
  8. metabomb

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    so in a way
    no matter who i date
    i'm dating outside of my race
    unless i date someone else who's mixed exactly the same as i am
    which would be kind of impossible
    since i'm swiss french black german and native american
     
  9. mant_its

    mant_its Banned

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    I love pretty Indian women. I live next to a reservation.
     
  10. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    what a dumb question..people are people.. besides how do you define your race? how many are pure african or pure irish or pure anything?
    so since my family is irish & scottish on 1 side & german & italian on the other i should only date people with the exact same mix?
    i've dated girls from many races before, ..and definately would again
     
  11. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    Hell, everybody's mixed nowadays!

    Here's a German-Welsh-Cherokee (and no telling what else is in my blood) talking to you...

    So, any racists out there are fucked in the "negative" way, when they could just drop the racism bullshit and be fucked in the good way! :)
     
  12. UFEZG

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    I often find myself attracted to people of different races. People often decide which race is ok for them to date, and which isn't. To me, that's bullshit. If you fall in love with someone of a different race, it's not for strangers to judge you. F/E: Some people think that it's "more acceptable" for an American to date someone South American. But so many people have a problem with whites dating blacks. There's nothing wrong with it, and if we didn't marry off to those of different races, we would die out. What with our beliefs that dating even a very distant relative is wrong.
     
  13. smurfette

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    of course i would and i have. i lOOOOOVE hispanic guys so hell yeah.
     
  14. sensamelia

    sensamelia hippy mom

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    a person is a person what ever race they are .......its whats inside apersons heart thats important not the colour of skin or country they were born in . we live in a multi cultural society...soaring you are a dark horse hee hee
     
  15. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    I wouldnt mind dating someone from another ethnicity, mainly because I'm quite a mix, I was born in southamerica to chilean parents, my dad comes from a spanish/italian background and who knows what else its in my blood (my family's past is rather shady) so i cant really define what "race" i belong to...i cant say i'm latin cos i look very european, but i was raised in a latin country and have been living in europe for the past 8 years. Any kind hearted, open minded and intelligent person will do, so far i have only dated european and latin people, but i wouldnt be afraid to check out the talent from other ethnicities....
     
  16. RELAYER

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    Im about to tap this Korean jaun, shit hahaha should be nice ;)
     
  17. Poem~Girl

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    i'm gunna point something out here!! i know we've come to a very racist society but i want to throw something out to put let you guys see what kind of people we can sometimes be!!


    1) who's been lied to?
    2) who's been cheated on?
    3) who's been hurt, mentally emotionally or physically?
    4) who's been bullied?
    5) who's been back stabbed by friends
    Get my drift

    If you look at the the society as a "whole" and look at all the ?'s i've put down... Maybe you could help one another instead of saying BUT (excuse) i like this race BECAUSE(excuse) well we should all chip in and be a lil more nicder who cares what the colour of the skin is. Flouerscent or not!

    Shame on you for thinking that way
     
  18. clementinexo

    clementinexo hip *****s sucks.

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    i personally wouldn't. i'm not racist, its just my personal preference. or it may be because i haven't found a person of the other race who i have been willing to be with. i've found many attractive but none i would want to pursue a relationship with. so maybe my answer is just an i'm not sure...
     
  19. STON3R

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    been there done that
     
  20. boek

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    yep, most likely.
     
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