i've had good sex once. every other time was okay or sucked. i don't like to have sex, i like to be fucked. and most guys think they need to be gentle or go slower after they first get it in. when really i'm just thinking FUCK ME. don't "make love" to me. ughhh its so fucking annoying kkkkkgreat
not getting off, bad hygene totally, no foreplay, and it's a total turn off when the guy doesn't have a clue how to kiss, or lick pussy, there is a technique
LOL. Next time don't think how you want it, TELL him how you want it! There's not many mind readers out there. As far as what defines bad sex to me, any sex that doesn't include mutual heavy petting and mutual oral foreplay and any sex where she prefers to just do missionary with no other positions. I also fucked this girl once who was afraid to let herself go. I was really nailing her and all was going well. But then she approached orgasm and she started to freak out screaming for me to stop then she started crying so I had to stop. Her neighbor from upstairs thought she was being attacked and came down to check on her, lol. After she calmed down, I asked her what the problem was and she told me "I always need to be in control of myself" That was good sex gone bad in a hurry.
Fuck me bad once, sham on you! Fuck me bad twice, sham on me!! -Samantha Jones (sex and the city) Bad hygiene and not getting it off is the worst...
Bad sex is when its just started and you wish they would get off just so you could go do something else.
bad sex= when hes done within a minute and tells ya he'll be right back but never comes back. thats bad sex..thats not even sex
No enthusiasm, no communication, one sided sex (when a guy just basically just sticks it in, gets off, then goes home), bad hygiene, when it lasts three seconds, when you're not even a minute in and you hope he finishes quickly so you can just leave...so much more. Don't wanna think about bad sex anymore! =P
it seems after I've read, that bad sex just happens to women, and that's not the case, I've been with women who just lay on their asses and it gets really boring after a while anyway, bad sex is better than no sex I think
Most men and women do not fully realize what bad sex is. Since most people are in fact, not very sexual ( believe it or not ) most may live their entire lives without knowing. Once an individual learns the art of love making, not fucking, but love making, he/she can better understand the difference between great sexual pleasure and subpar sexual pleasure. Obviously, you get something out of a dick going in a vagina, but that's horribly basic. You know when you're bad when you know how good you can be. And you know when someone else is bad when you know they have no sexual understanding.
Instances of bad sex in my experience: -Not PC I know but any sex with a condom on is bad sex. I can't get off with one on. I'd rather not have sex than have sex with a condom. - One woman seduced me into bed and then cried most of the time. I finally just had to quit and leave. She was feeling bad about cheating on her boyfriend. - She bragged about how good she was in bed but wouldn't give head and just lay there. Yawn. - I love to go down on women so bad smell makes bad sex but out of the 300+ women I've been with only a few had this problem. The vast majority of women smell totally yummy. A few others had little balls of toilet paper there though and I was grossed out by that. -Not a fan of anal play so stop touching my butt hole when I tell you the first time.
Having read each and every answer, I recommend them to the uninitiated. Some good stuff in these posts. The enemy of sex is lack of patience. Affects both genders. Be patient with your lover. Don't hesitate to say what you want. Always be up for something new. There is no 'dirty' part of the body. Unclean maybe, but the whole thing is in play. Bad sex is the opposite of those facts.