Do men repress rape instincts?

Actually, I've never considered murder. Surprise!


Thievery, well, I have fantastised about pulling off a victimless crime because, well, who doesn't want money? But it never reached the 'consideration' part of my brain, so I wouldn't say I had to repress anything. I don't have the guts or the resources.

Maybe we all repress horrible things. Maybe I'm just in denial.

 

Thought is different from repression. Repressing is where you truly desire to act but are prevented by society and/or the thought of getting caught. No one can control their thoughts to that point.

Unfortunately, I don't have time to respond as this deserves at this moment, but I'll post a follow-up later.

 

I'd rather get raped.

 

Is mental torture as bad as physical? I'd say that it can be, for me Rape is just a label, it's just as easy (and probably happens more..) for a woman to rape a man's mind as it is for a man to physically rape a woman. You can make your minds up as to what is worse, both are appalling things to do. Although raping the mind is a lot easier to get away with.

Just for the record, i have never had to repress a rape instinct, cos i've never felt one. So i don't agree with the thread title.

 

in afterthoughts i really realize that almost entirely those thoughts are behind me, and in large part becasue i guess when you've been intimate with someone, you think less about your personal pleasures, and more about the pleasure of pleasing other

you seem like a fine lady, and i wouldn't want you to meet good guys with the lurking idea of rape. Trust me, it is a long and winding path to drastic crimes like that so when it happens, note the pain that been had on both sides of the lines, rape i can't say cause i don't know all the cases, is extreme brought on by extreme conditions, similar to suicide (a long and dakr paths)

but from pic you look like someone who doesn't think horrible things

 

Mine aren't very strong, if at all. I have been asked to act it out with a g/f... but that is totally different, and completely fine in my opinion. I have myriad sexual thoughts, day in and day out. Rape is just not something I am interested in. If I could, for example, "get away with it", I still wouldn't be interested. I think it would be a *very* dark path to go down, and have karmic consequences into the next two or three lifetimes. Anyway, it just doesn't turn me on. The notion that all men have them is absurd. It's a justification used by men who have them.

Role playing is a blast though. I'd be into my woman pretending to control and force me, too. I like when she grabs my hair and pushes my face up against her during oral sex. I love it.

 

Forcing my gf and fucking her while she is mad and fighting me is insanely hot. However i would never rape somebody cause that is just fucked up.

 

raping someone in fantasy or gettting off on the idea means that you have rape related desires, the things that seems to stop people who fantasy, or act it out in safe enviroments is because you don't want to get in trouble, so then

Would rape a women if you wouldn't get in trouble?, or if she never remebers it? or both cases?

 

Thats not really true for everyone, but im sure its true for a small majority.

I think the male instincts carry a natural desire to force woman to have sex(we are civilized animals after all). However doing it with someone you don't even know(raping and hurting them, which is very fucked up) compared to a girlfriend who is ok with it and seeks the same desires, is completely different and doesn't really mean that just because you have rough sex you would ever rape someone.

But would i ever "rape" a woman if i were to not get in trouble? If it was my gf, yes(hell even if i was to get in trouble ) if it was someone else, never in a million years.

 

You would rape your girlfriend? If she wants you to do it, it's not rape. And in the animal kingdom, the female has to accept the male first.

 

That's right. I'm more of a sunshine and happy little elves kind of person.

 

I'm going to fuck her whether she wants to or not, and not all animals wait for the female to accept the male. There are some that will force the female.

 

when its forced its rape stupid! get that into your horny shrunken brain!!

 

You just stated the obvious, good job. by the way, insults dont go very far, you will earn that later on.

But back to the topic, yes, men do repress rape instincts to sum it up.

 

i truly beleive that all men are surpressing rape instincts.

 

I believe there is a degree of base instinct but I think nurture has a much larger role.

 

how can you people even say that? you think all men supress rape? thats like saying all dogs supress killing people!

 

Yes, I agree. But I also feel that it has to do with hormones, because most women like to "roleplay" a rape fantasy, which is pretty fucked up if you think about it. So go figure if guys think about it, girls think about the other thing (not that they REALLY want it to happen, mind you. But neither do the guys who think about it).

 

I don't think men "suppress" rape instincts. I think they have carnal instincts that sort of linger in the back of their mind and some may have rape fantasies. Some, not all. Many guys probably get the desire to just mount a ridiculously good-looking female sometimes, or at least I would imagine so. But I do not think it is the natural instinct of man to rape.

And most women do NOT like to roleplay rape. Some women do, but most do not.

 

Im gonna have to bring it back to instincts and say yes, that men do have the instincts but its not so strong has to where you have to hold yourself back... how do you think anyone in the world ever gets together? its the instinct...

Now, I wouldnt call that instinct rape, I think that going through with the unconsented acting out of that instinct would definitely be defined as rape..but the instinct is not rape, it is as natural as sneezing.. people just have feelings and urges whether its for an actual person or possibly even a person on a movie screen, maybe its related to fight or flight type mechanisms connected to vision..im not sure, have heard a few tales of men being more visual than women but who can say?...

oh yeah, rape is probably a cultural thing as well(or the idea)..i know the inuit(eskimos) of northern canada the only way they mate is what we would define as rape... a man picks a woman and takes her, thats it.. end of story..dunno, something to ponder or research if youre interested...enjoy

and i have to say i aggree with dancin in pajamas